so, my husband is in a weird funk lately... and i need to get him out of it.... i need the most amazing date idea ever!!!! PLEASE HELP!
2006-07-14 08:55:38 · 9 answers · asked by MnKLmT 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it can't involve sex. he has no sex drive! (read my other questions) he doesn't like 3 somes.. tried the purple headed warrior.. he's never in the mood.. thats why i gotta do something special for him... i'm telling you he has the mind of a female people! and panties don't do it either. i even had some made that say "aaron's pussy" on them! wtf!
2006-07-14 09:05:55 · update #1
I have a few of ideas for you.
1. Go to http://www.google.com and search for bed & breakfasts within 6 - 8 hours of where you live. Call them and ask about romantic ideas or adventurous ideas near their location and sweep him away for the night - or weekend.
2. If you have kids, arrange for them to stay the night with friends or relatives. Then prepare a very romantic setting for your husband when he gets home at night. Picture the following: He comes home and he opens the door to the house. He immediately sees that there is a VERY long string attached to the door. As he follows the string throughout the house, he stops periodically to read the erotic, suggestive notes you have attached to them. Eventually, he makes his way into the bedroom (where the string ends at the bed) and he finds himself in a candlelit room with rose petals all over the bed. How does a bottle of wine or champagne sound? Cheese platter? Chocolate covered strawberries? Strawberries and whipped cream? Is the candle lit bubble-bath prepared? Do you have the massage oils on the bedside table to massage his back/neck/shoulders, arms, legs and feet? Pamper him and treat him like the king for the night - he might just find a little of that sex drive!
3. Go to http://www.amazon.com and search for the paperback version of the book: 101 NIGHTS OF GRRREAT ROMANCE: How to make love with your clothes on (By Laura Corn). This book gives you 51 weeks of romantic ideas designed to put the spark back into relationships which have lost it as well as keep the spark in the relationships where it still exists.
4. Go to http://www.travelocity.com and look at their last- minute deals. You might be able to find an inexpensive cruise or weekend vacation as well as get discounts to show and other events.
I hope that these suggestions are helpful to you. I would also encourage you to have open, honest dialogue with him to try to learn why his sex drive is so low. Most of the time, these issues can be easily overcome by loving conversation and, sometimes, a visit to the doctor.
I wish you both all the best!
2006-07-14 09:39:11 · answer #1 · answered by mgctouch 7 · 8⤊ 2⤋
get him dressed up - formal - you dress in something REALLY sexy! If you can afford it get a limo to pick you up.....
so the next step is to have someone cook - the overall idea is to basically go somewhere special - romantic - a field, a lake, the beach.....when you arrive there is a table and chairs, a waiter/waitress, a cook, a sexy hostess, a chilled bottle of wine/champagne....it should be a beautiful setting - extremely romantic.....some catering companies will do it - you can probably put an ad on the net for someone to do all this - it might end up costing a few bucks but it will be WELL Spent......
Make sure any girls that work the date (ie waitress, hostess, etc) are dressed sexy - not sleezy - but enough to attract attention....BUT - Make damn sure any guys are dressed well and NOT sexy - you dont want to make your hubby feel like your attention isnt on him.
All in all - I would bet you could pull it off for a couple hundred bucks. It would be something he would never forget - its soo much better than just going to dinner or something....Its something that shows him how much you care....and you should be doing things to show him all through dinner....use your imagination on that one.
Guaranteed slump killer!
When I was younger I used to do things like this as a business.....I had a couple cute girls, some good looking guys as wiaters/cooks - i'd set up on the beach with a full kitchen - once the meal was over we'd start a fire for the couple and leave them to a romantic evening - the waiter would stay to keep pouring on drinks and attention. I had a deal worked with a limo company who would give discounts for the evening.
2006-07-14 09:08:58 · answer #2 · answered by ruwild4wade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him to the top of the Empire State Building and kiss him. Did it for my wife last December. She's still talking about it.
2006-07-14 08:59:21 · answer #3 · answered by Vosot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it truly is what i'd do. i'd plan a street holiday to an amuzement park. examine in a motel, draw close out for the day, contained in the nighttime bypass decrease back to the motel room, order room provider and afterwards take him for a wild journey. ;-)
2016-12-01 07:21:16 · answer #4 · answered by dryer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go buy some new panties with him and then go home and give him a good time.
2006-07-14 09:02:17 · answer #5 · answered by aluminum22rocker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get on your knees and battle the purple headed warrior
2006-07-14 08:57:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vegas! Go to Pure nightclub and shake your groove thing!
2006-07-14 08:58:07 · answer #7 · answered by Gregie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
scuba diving
victorias secret sexy dice game
2006-07-14 08:57:51 · answer #8 · answered by scarlett <3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You, him, and a girlfriend of yours.
2006-07-14 08:58:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋