My gf and i were on bad terms for a week or so after having an almost very bad break up 3 months ago... recently i found out she just started talking to a guy, she knew through her best friend, online. There was heavy flirting on both ends and she almost went down to his place. when i asked about the guy she tried to brush me off by telling me that i was being paranoid and that he was just a friend, but when i told her about the details she came clean and said she was sorry. She seemed more upset that i found out and said that it wouldnt have been an issue even if i didnt found out coz it wasnt gonna go anywhere coz she loved me a lot and cared about our relationship. For some reason even after almost a week i cant seem to get past it and i still see her talking all cutsie and tootsie to the same guy. I would think if someone would care about the relationship they would just stop talking to that person........ am i right????
2006-07-14 08:54:19 · 7 answers · asked by random Guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its not cheating, but its not right or fair to you if you have expressed your concerns. You are right. Move on. Say asta levista baby.
2006-07-14 08:58:53 · answer #1 · answered by Shebaby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's nt really cheating but it's no right at all. You were right to be upset because if someone really cared they wouldn't do those things to you. To be honest the both of you really need to sit down and have a heart to heart talk about where you both see your relationship going. If the two of you have different views about your relationship then maybe its best that the two of you go your seperate ways.
2006-07-14 16:03:57 · answer #2 · answered by rainababy2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a emotional hot button that I am not even going to begin to press. A girl should be faithful to her one and only and signs of misconduct is only a predictor of future events.
2006-07-14 16:00:01 · answer #3 · answered by trigunmarksman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're broken up. How is this cheating? If you are, in fact together, then flirting isn't cheating, but it is not appropriate behavior. If it bothers you, and she's your gf, then she should respect your wishes.
2006-07-14 16:05:22 · answer #4 · answered by LSD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was almost but not completely at least she came clean and said sorry and apoligize
2006-07-14 16:00:03 · answer #5 · answered by babiedoll9264 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats the problem of not talking things out in advance. what kind of relationship does she want and what kind do u want?
2006-07-14 16:00:16 · answer #6 · answered by Megan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do the same... u wont feel bad nor guilty later
2006-07-14 16:05:27 · answer #7 · answered by holildevil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋