Family & Relationships - 14 July 2006

I am a shy guy and I strongly feel I will be rejected, so that's why I even fear talking to women. I don't want to be hurt.

2006-07-14 15:47:14 · 8 answers · asked by sleepy j 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-14 15:46:49 · 51 answers · asked by Soar 2 1 in Family

im getting married in december in morocco but no one in my family has a passport but me and i really want my mother to be their but she doesnt have money for passports. now im in morocco about to back to us and im going to try to get two of my sisters passports so atleast some one will be their do u think i should get my moms passport also but if she comes she as the risk of losing her job im really confused

2006-07-14 15:46:30 · 9 answers · asked by steph 3 in Weddings

Ok first off its was something totally stupid about my hair. I wanted to do something different so i got it cut. He didn't think he would like, so I dyied it his favorite color. When he saw it he said it looked good and he liked it. So later i decisded to cut to shorter and asked his opinion. He said he didn't care, it was my hair, and do want I wanted. When I did he told told me I looked like a moron, he was gonna have to find him a girl, he didn't want to see me until it grew back out (he works out of town alot so not seeing him isn't unusual), and he didn't even think he would be able to sleep with me. He also said that he lyied when he said he liked it the first time so he didn't hurt my feelings and cause an agrument and thats why he lyed this time as well. He thinks its OK because he choose "the lesser of the two". I am disgusted that he lyed, I asked because I wanted his opinion since the cut was really drastic.

2006-07-14 15:46:15 · 4 answers · asked by shawnsbetterhalf 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm white but i've a thing for black girls and find them really hot! whenever i go to local clubs i hang out with em and my friend calls me a wigger just cause i do that. i'm currently dating a beautiful black girl but im keeping it a secret to most of my mates except my best friend because i dont like how others view me because of my preference. why do people think badly about me???

2006-07-14 15:46:00 · 16 answers · asked by light_farts 1 in Friends

My boyfriend (before he met me) use to put the internet dating ads over the internet. I dont kno if he ever met anyone, but months into our relationship I found out that he still had internet dating ads, some of which he put up WHILE we were together. He is a MAJOR FLIRT! And I put up an ad on the same site, pretending to be someone else. He sent a message (after I sent one to him) saying he was single and givin me his number. I confronted him about it, he said sorry and that he only did it because he was "bored" but i found NUMEROUS ads and profiles of his on the internet saying he was single and blah blah. His excuses are that he was bored, or he just wanted to see if he "still had it" I know he still has dating ads on the net and hes created several email addresses he thinks I don't know about. When I confront him about it, he goes BALISTIC!! I dont know why he keeps doin this, and I try to please him in every way possible. What could he be getting from this, that Im not giving him?

2006-07-14 15:45:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what is some good advice to give a very close friend when you found out that she has been sleeping around with some of her guy friends to get back at her overly protective parents?

2006-07-14 15:44:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ladies don't like nice men, but bad boys...true or false? they say they do but really isn't just men with money you like? I've seen some women with real jerk off men who lie and cheat on them and they don't seem to care as the man has a lot of money. please try to keep to the point here... don't want your opinion about me asking this question, this is a genuine search for knowledge

2006-07-14 15:44:07 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-14 15:43:20 · 11 answers · asked by Laprincessa1182 2 in Singles & Dating

ok welll i met this hott guy a long time ago and i told myself not to like him but i do when i asked him out he said no but last nite
we talked and i said why did you say no and he wouldn't tell me
then i asked is it a good reason or bad he said good then he said youll figure it out so im thinking this i was in elementry last year and he was in high school so maybe he might be waiting to ask me out but....back to the story then he said either ill tell you or someone else will!!!

so just plz help he flirts all the time but does he like me?!?!

2006-07-14 15:42:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my sister is separated and the paper work has not yet been filed and her spouse said hes moving back in

2006-07-14 15:40:10 · 6 answers · asked by kim n 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Like, a girl who is shy and doesn't warm up to people very quickly.
What goes in her (possibly your) mind when you see a guy.
What would be a good way to handle a shy girl?
And what impresses a shy girl?
For now I'm only interested in being friends.

I work at the local movie theatre and have seen her a few times, we've never really talked, but the other night she was with her best friend and she DID smile at me, for the first time I think, wether she was smiling at me or smiling in general I think it was a good sign lol. heh- I did point that out to her, lol, that was the longest I've ever been around her, and dang they ordered alot of candy .

One thing I want to ask is- is she listening, sometimes I'm kind of quiet when I say something to her, which isn't often but I wonder if she hears what I say.

2006-07-14 15:38:58 · 15 answers · asked by rambocommandodude 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-14 15:38:29 · 11 answers · asked by M. Prince 2 in Singles & Dating

I have two small children, and I don't work. We moved here for my fiancee's job, and he works like 70 hours. So Im so lonely. Id like to meet people with kids so my kids can have playmates. Its been 4 months, and nothing. Please help, Im so lonely.

2006-07-14 15:38:21 · 2 answers · asked by sweetiepie 4 in Friends

13-16...she is 28

2006-07-14 15:37:54 · 14 answers · asked by mybrotherissocute 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-14 15:35:30 · 10 answers · asked by itsme 1 in Singles & Dating

A girl came to me and listened to my iPod. When I played My Immortal, she loved it. Then i said to her that I can give her the song for free and put it on hers

Is that consitered a flirt? cause she gave me her Street address, email address, and most of her information after that said that I'll give her the song. Should I drive to her house and date her? should i just call her and talk to her? What else can i do with her. She's actually a year older than me.

2006-07-14 15:35:08 · 15 answers · asked by AC/DC Fanatic 2 in Singles & Dating

My sister's bf has cheated on her. He was the kind of guy who didnt like talking to anyone about his things. Now my sister doesnt know if she really loves him like she used to. She has gone out with this guy really late one day behind his back. He doesnt know anything about it bu he feels like she doesnt want him anymore. He talked to me about it one day that we all got together at his house. Im going out with his brother so they both expect me to tell them what she really feels. My sis has ratted me out once but i dont know if i should tell her bf or my bf??? Should i leave it or what??? I know now that he really is hurting about all this and my sis seems like she doesnt care. Now she has to turn off her phone when she is with her bf cuz that other guy and her text all the time. Advice??? i have tried talking to her but it has been 2 days and now she doesnt even tell me anything. Advice!!!!!! PLZ!!!

2006-07-14 15:35:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i haven't had sex... i haven't even experienced anything close to it yet... but I was just wondering, besides the chances of getting pregnant or getting an STD, is there anything wrong with sex before marriage?

I know in the Bible it says you can't have sex before marriage... I don't want to sound like I don't believe in the Bible when I ask this, but why does it say sex before marriage is so bad?

I know this may sound stupid... but just out of curiousity...

2006-07-14 15:33:49 · 26 answers · asked by sam 2 in Singles & Dating

Every now and then I love to hold my girls face in my hands and just stare at her for a moment before I kiss her. She looks at me like"why the hell are you looking at me like that?" Its just that I love to look a her Beautiful face (eyes,nose,little freckles by her nose) and think to myself for the brief moment "I can't believe I have this girl and Im about to kiss her right now. I told her this but she still looks like she is uncomfortable or maybe she just gets a little embarrased.She hasnt said anything lately other than "What" when I do this then she smiles. I also do this sometimes when she walks around, I just love looking at my girl, is that such a crime? I cant help it but Im thinking maybe I should try to stop. what do you think?

2006-07-14 15:33:22 · 14 answers · asked by rock_roll_musicman 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-14 15:33:17 · 15 answers · asked by >>>>>>> 4 in Friends

2006-07-14 15:32:55 · 8 answers · asked by Sunshinegirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm just about to finish college and at this age, I know a lot of my friends are busy with school and jobs, but I get this feeling sometimes that I'm being ignored. The thing is, is that I know that even the busiest of people have some free time, but a few of my friends hardly call or hang out anymore. I don't bug them too often, but every once in a while, I do want to see them, even if it's just for dinner or a brief chat. I guess I'm just lonely sometimes. I have a lot of friends, but often I feel like I'm being left out. I have a strong intuition about things, so I when I get this feeling I'm usually right. I just wonder if it's my personality? I'm a very laid-back, nice person and I always try to make everyone feel that way, so what's with people and their not returning my calls or always saying that they're too busy? I just like spending time with people. I get bored when I'm not busy myself.

2006-07-14 15:32:14 · 3 answers · asked by Crazywoman 1 in Friends

Im just cerious!
Best one getts 10 points!!!

2006-07-14 15:31:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like a boy friend.

2006-07-14 15:31:24 · 6 answers · asked by Missy 1 in Singles & Dating

tried holding him down, pleading with him, will reward him if he takes one little-bitty drop, tired wrapping him in a blanket, but felt too quilty when he started crying....even tried when he was asleep...woke up screaming...I give up.

2006-07-14 15:31:22 · 14 answers · asked by jonny 3 in Family

My husband and I have been married for almost a year and he doesn't think looking at porn is worng. I feel it brings a horrible falsification into our relationship and I don't want that. I've tried being okay with it, I've watched it with him, I've tried to pretend it isn't happening and still I just end up crying for hours because I feel like I'm not good enough. He has told me that he wants to stop and that being married to me is more important than that and he's let me put a password on the computer that only I know, he only uses the computer when I'm watching but after three months of being porn free he went and rented some videos and I came home and caught him. I'm afraid that this time I just can't get past all the betrayl and hurt that I feel...I would honestly do anything he asked of me but I can't be okay with this I've tried. This is the only thing we haven't been able to work out and I'm just wondering how long I try and help him before I throw in the towel?

2006-07-14 15:31:13 · 16 answers · asked by hideemosquito 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i mean obviously it means she likes me but is it possible she just wants to know and doest really like me!

2006-07-14 15:30:54 · 29 answers · asked by youle 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-14 15:30:27 · 12 answers · asked by Sal 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If one of the partners in a relationship feels the need to 'starighten you out' or 'break you in right' and hurts you in the process, do you continue with the relationship with that in the back of your mind, do you accept an apology or do you retaliate in the exact same manner as you were hurt in the first place?

Does it pay to continue with a relationship, hoping that everything will work itself out or is it time to end it and move on with both of yours lives?

And, what if that relationship was an engagement to get married, would you break it off or wait awhile?

And, if it was a marriage, would you get a divorce?

Think along the lines of third party intervention. A date which may or may not have ended the night in bed between your soul mate and that night on the town without you...now answer.

2006-07-14 15:29:01 · 6 answers · asked by marnefirstinfantry 5 in Other - Family & Relationships