i'm white but i've a thing for black girls and find them really hot! whenever i go to local clubs i hang out with em and my friend calls me a wigger just cause i do that. i'm currently dating a beautiful black girl but im keeping it a secret to most of my mates except my best friend because i dont like how others view me because of my preference. why do people think badly about me???
2006-07-14 15:46:00 · 16 answers · asked by light_farts 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The world is just filled with stupid and ignorant people. People who insult you because of your relationship(s) are definitely close-minded and small-minded. So what if you like black girls?You're not racist and you should just ignore all the individuals who are just the opposite of you!
2006-07-15 08:02:23 · answer #1 · answered by Petra M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your friend(s) are not really your friend(s). They should support you on any decision you make even when it comes to woman. You cant help who you like or fall in love with. They need to look beyond the color of their skin and realize what a great personality this person may have and what is really important is how this person makes you feel. If you are happy then your friend(s) have no right judging you for that. Their are unfortunately people out there who will always be against whites dating blacks...thats the world we live in. We have to look past those people and tell ourselves that we are happy with our decision and that is all that matters, who has to live your life, them or you? So you do what makes you happy and forget those who dont agree.
2006-07-14 22:52:06 · answer #2 · answered by littlemama025 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be hiding your beautiful girl way. Be proud of her and show her off. Also be proud of the fact that you're not a narrow minded racist.
Real friends won't make you feel self conscious about being your true self. They will accept your chosen partner fully, just like your best friend. So stand up for your girl and if they don't like the color of her skin, kick them to the curb.
2006-07-14 22:59:33 · answer #3 · answered by xanadu88 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
to some people interracial couples is the wierdest thing ever. If you like black girls don't be afraid of what people say. You don't let people tell you who and what to like. I'm a black male living in the freakin projects and i LOVE white girls. i don't care what people say because they're just stupid anyway
once you go black you never go back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-14 23:07:22 · answer #4 · answered by aboygenius 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the only thing bad about it is that you feel you have to hide it, it's weak of you and disrespectful to your girlfriend. Stand up for yourself to your mates, who cares what they say. Remember the rhyme - Sticks and stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me - your a big boy now so stand up for yourself and your girl. Be proud of her, not hide her and make her feel like there is something wrong with her, that would be so humiliating.
2006-07-14 22:52:41 · answer #5 · answered by having_a_blonde_day_lol 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What a person looks like shouldn't be the deciding factor but "who" they are should be the biggest thing.
Date who you like. Be proud of it and I bet your friends will surprise you. If they don't like it - you need new friends. It will be the same with some of her friends but that's their problem, not yours.
2006-07-14 22:51:14 · answer #6 · answered by BigBadBoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. I am white, but have found blacks to be most warm hearted and helpful. Women are hot too.
2006-07-14 22:50:07 · answer #7 · answered by Tomas E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is fine that you hane a thing for black women. if that is what you like then do you dont be ashame and hide it be yourself you dont have to do that because its not a bad thing. people think badly of you because they are stupid thats all.
2006-07-14 23:25:20 · answer #8 · answered by BABY BOO 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I guess that they haven't accepted the fact that you are strongly attracted to them. Maybe they think it's just you trying to fit it. But it's just your preference and they have to deal with it, forget what people say about your significant other.
2006-07-14 22:49:54 · answer #9 · answered by ::.Mz.Allure.:: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who thinks badly of you for interracial dating is close-minded. Enjoy yourself.
2006-07-14 22:50:31 · answer #10 · answered by longhair140 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋