what is some good advice to give a very close friend when you found out that she has been sleeping around with some of her guy friends to get back at her overly protective parents?
2006-07-14 15:44:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her she is risking her own reputation
2006-07-14 15:46:35 · answer #1 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend has a very misguided view of who is getting hurt by her sexual activity.
First of all if she is having sex with several guys her parents aren't protective enough. She is giving her parents reason to watch her like a hawk.
Secondly her method of rebelling has one victim: HERSELF.
She is running the risk of std's, AND making a reputation for herself that she will come to regret some day.
I also that that her sleeping around to get back at her parents is a big ole baloney sandwich.It's a lame excuse as far as i'm concerned. She has a self-destructive tendency and would be well advised to find out the REAL reason.
2006-07-14 22:56:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Overly Protective parents' seems to be a mere excuse for her promiscuity. Would the situation change if she had a lenient & broadminded parents?
Some like to sleep & fool around. It is in their blood & haormones & mostly influenced by the company they keep.
Unless, they get into a good company & become principled rather than pleasure-seeking, there seems to be no instant cure for this.
Only time will show her how wrong she is. Friendly advices won't be of any use.
2006-07-14 22:53:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is only hurting herself. And chances are her parents will never even know. So who wins? And how is she getting "back" at them if they don't know? Explain to her that not IF but when she gets pregnant or catches some nasty disease that she will be the one that is forced to deal with it and then she will be begging her "overly protective" parents to help her. We, parents, actually know a thing or two about life believe it or not! :)
Good Luck and remind her that she is lucky to have a friend like you who cares!
2006-07-14 22:50:12 · answer #4 · answered by girlysledgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be her friend and give her sound advice. This is HER life and she's only ruining herself and hurting herself by doing what she's doing. She's going to have to live with everything that comes along with sleeping around. Risk of STD; pregnancy and a bad reputation. Those are things SHE will have to deal with not her parents.
2006-07-14 22:48:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The advice I'd give her......Two things.
1~use a condom..always no exceptions.
2~don't tell no one and make sure the guys she is choosing are discret too....if they ever hope to sleep with her again I assume they would be.
Now..sleeping around is a bad thing why??
2006-07-14 22:47:28 · answer #6 · answered by Crazy Bch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that what she is doing is not the best thing to do to get back at your parents as a matter of fact she is only hurting herself i mean she doesn't even like the guys she sleeps wih does she?
2006-07-14 22:47:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isnt any close friend is there, your the one who needs the advice right? Stop sleeping around swity it aint cool!!
2006-07-15 05:18:54 · answer #8 · answered by toots 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some good advice is to tell her to do it even more. Encourage her to do it with even more. Let her have her fun and dont impose your own morals on her.
2006-07-14 22:49:18 · answer #9 · answered by Lera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her if she's gonna sleep around do it cause she's horny and not to get back at her parents. That's gay.
2006-07-14 22:47:16 · answer #10 · answered by Dream Bree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that she needs to slow down, because nowadays it is not safe to be just sleeping around with anybody. talk to her and tell her it's not worth it just for revenge, because she could put herself in very serious dangerous situations.
2006-07-14 22:47:25 · answer #11 · answered by KEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋