Family & Relationships - 12 July 2006

He came home from work and when I woke up I saw him on the computer and I saw the reflection of what he was looking at on a frame that was behind him and I know it was porn. And when I came around the corner he quickly closed the window and when I asked him about it he lied right to my face and I told him I knew what he was doing. I didn't yell at him, but I did let him know that I was hurt that he lied to my face like that. I told him that we need to be able to communicate and that I love him, but he just got angry and brought up old situations saying that I was no good and that I was always bit@*ing at him. I told him that I was very hurt by his lie and that I couldn't understand how easy he could do it to me and that I'm sure he wouldn't like it if I did it to him. What should I do?? Am I making a big deal out of nothing or should i just let it go??

2006-07-12 05:29:45 · 25 answers · asked by Ms.BusyBody 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-12 05:29:39 · 5 answers · asked by foxxy_CR 2 in Singles & Dating

I just found out that my 18 year old has to go to Iraq in september for a year!!!! I'm so afraid but I know God is able but even though he's just a mechanic in the army it's a high risk over there prayers are appreciated!!!!

2006-07-12 05:29:23 · 24 answers · asked by cocoa 3 in Family

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2006-07-12 05:29:21 · 9 answers · asked by Nafertiti 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-12 05:29:17 · 13 answers · asked by nascarchick66 2 in Family

....time. i get bored of an item of clothing after a while, or my car....how does one decide to settle and not try new things every so often? Even Brad Pitt said when he married Jennifer Aniston, that he doesnt believe in marriage forever or even just to be with someone forever! Whats your opinion?

2006-07-12 05:29:01 · 7 answers · asked by smart_babe 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for almost 7 years and during this time have seperated 3 times and 3 times I have gone back. Not only because he begged me back but because I wanted to try and work things out as well. The problem is every time I do go back, things are great but then a few months down the line they are back to the same old thing. I am not blaming all of our marrital problems on him but he doesnt put near as much effort into it is I do. I moved again (3rd time) in May and now he is telling me the same old things trying to get me to come back. This time I really thought that we were just tired of it all and now I find myself wondering what if again......

2006-07-12 05:28:56 · 26 answers · asked by sm in nc 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I only want about a 6 month engagement. I was wondering if it is possible to plan a wedding in this amount of time. Especially if I already have an idea of what I want ahead of time.

2006-07-12 05:28:55 · 21 answers · asked by anonymous29 2 in Weddings

2006-07-12 05:27:49 · 27 answers · asked by b_sav510 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-12 05:27:43 · 11 answers · asked by I ♥ Colombianos 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-12 05:27:23 · 3 answers · asked by alexandredz 3 in Singles & Dating

ive been lookin back on sum of the questions on here and i noticed how mean sum of the ppl out there can be. I read 1 question bout a gurl whos mother died and she wanted 2 see how other ppl coped with that. She got alot of nice ppl that gave her sum ideas to deal wid her pain but a couple of dudes couldnt help but let there jackass side show and felt perfectly happy bout callin her a "ugly little hoe whos mother prolly died of being a hoe or tryin 2 save her fat ***". That wuz tha most hurtful thing i had ever heard of any1 in tha world. So i sent an email 2 all 3 of those guys wid 6 diffrent viruses on it that should have completely crashed there computers.
Anybody else get tired of hearin those kind of ppl just completely make such a bad name 4 tha real men out there? That just have nothin else 2 do but bring down every person thay can just for 2 points?

2006-07-12 05:25:40 · 41 answers · asked by Tha Godfatha 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Does a man have to hand over all his assets in a nasty divorce? Is 82% of his gross legal? How does he live? How can he fight and what can he do to keep it 50/50. The wife is emotionally abusive but can pull the wool over anyone's eyes, including the judge. Help,he is dying here...seriously...he needs legal answers, his attorney is worthless...

2006-07-12 05:25:32 · 6 answers · asked by Cassandra 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well I met this guy two weeks ago and everything has been going okay but I am not sure if he wants to be with me. Sometimes he acts nice, and attentive. Lately he has been acting weird and standoffish. I don't have time to play games. I mean is he for real or do I need to let that go and focus on someone else. I think I have issues because when he was paying me a lot of attention, I was not really into him, but now that he is not, I want him to talk to me on a daily basis. I got other candidates, but I think I am really starting to like him. How can I get him to be interested in me again?

2006-07-12 05:24:48 · 11 answers · asked by bella 3 in Singles & Dating

help me

2006-07-12 05:23:26 · 21 answers · asked by javed cool147 1 in Singles & Dating

I have had so many friends recently complain to me. They will do the online dating. They will see the pics of a guy and he will be older, heavier, different person, once a different race, have lied about religion, income. How would you deal with that. I mean seriously, not a silly response.

2006-07-12 05:23:05 · 7 answers · asked by Yisrael Chai 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-12 05:22:54 · 1 answers · asked by ronnieguyoncam 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a 21 year old guy currently dating a 50 year old woman. Many ppl have expressed to me their disapproval and I get pissed and went off on them, by telling them to go to hell. What do you think of me telling them off?

2006-07-12 05:22:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Its all "i like this boy/girl and dont know what to do", "baseball or basketball", "what part of the world do you come from?" Ireland whats ireland, is that in califorina?

2006-07-12 05:21:42 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-07-12 05:21:33 · 27 answers · asked by camryn010703 2 in Singles & Dating

I was talking to one of my guy friends online (whom i have a crush on) and I asked him if he wanted to hang out on friday and he said that he was going away friday but would probably be free on saturday depending on whether he had to work or not. I told him to e-mail me if he wanted to hang out and he said "definitely." If he doesn't e-mail me to tell me he wants to hang out or that he's busy should Igive up or keep trying? I don't want to seem too desperate with him.
he's also really shy and his last gf said that she was the one who had to ask him out

2006-07-12 05:21:18 · 6 answers · asked by krazykat8111 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-12 05:20:21 · 13 answers · asked by tavi m 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister is married and has her own home, but she's been living with my mother for five months (since she got pregnant). She says the smell of her house makes her sick. I could believe her at first, but now, she's just freeloading and expecting my parents to pay her bills and do her laundry and feed her and her husband while my sister lays on the couch all day doing nothing. She's not on bedrest or anything. She's just lazy. Just because she's pregnant doesn't mean she has to stop living her life. My parents want her out too, but they don't want to hurt her feelings. I'm married as well, and have a family of my own. I can't even spend time with my mother because my sister is always there. Help please!! Any ideas would be appreciated.

2006-07-12 05:19:54 · 6 answers · asked by ♥ Tori ♥ 5 in Family

2006-07-12 05:19:16 · 5 answers · asked by Liow R 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-12 05:19:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-12 05:18:59 · 79 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is a great girl, she seems to really like me and of course I like her alot. But we already live in two seperate cities and have only hungout a handful of times. Though we talk everyday and I feel close to her. What are the chances we will continue to get closer next month when we will be going to school a thousand miles away from each other?

PS. its her freshman year and first time away from home.

Also any advice on how to preserve the relationship?

2006-07-12 05:18:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Two years ago, I had survived living on the streets and finally landed myself an apartment. I was in a fading 2 year relationship and I had a job at safeway. Me and my ex broke up, then my parents died (both died in a fire in trailer), and I lost my apartment cause I forced to deal with payment dues for union fee's I wasnt told about till last second. So I lost the apartment. It seemed nobody wanted to really get to much into helping me cope with my parents death and 2 add onto it, my ex was spreading rumors and lies that were really horrible. Half of my friends asking me if they were true (which really hurt). To this day, my ex still knocks me down and also her other ex's after me. The town I live in is very small and it seems I cant live without my past coming up, even though nobody knows the truth but me and my ex. I've confronted her many times. I've tried to ignore the problems that came from it, but its gotten really bad. How do I deal with this? I just wanna live and let live.

2006-07-12 05:17:36 · 3 answers · asked by Billy the Kid 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-12 05:17:00 · 2 answers · asked by Paydro! 1 in Family

I love my mother a lot but we have a very wierd relationship...I try to be the best daughter I can but is never enough. I'm hapily married for 5 years and have a beautiful 3 year old girl...my life seems to be perfect, but I'm incomplete because I dont get alone with my mother. I'm very sad about it and is affecting my everyday life.

2006-07-12 05:16:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family