Two years ago, I had survived living on the streets and finally landed myself an apartment. I was in a fading 2 year relationship and I had a job at safeway. Me and my ex broke up, then my parents died (both died in a fire in trailer), and I lost my apartment cause I forced to deal with payment dues for union fee's I wasnt told about till last second. So I lost the apartment. It seemed nobody wanted to really get to much into helping me cope with my parents death and 2 add onto it, my ex was spreading rumors and lies that were really horrible. Half of my friends asking me if they were true (which really hurt). To this day, my ex still knocks me down and also her other ex's after me. The town I live in is very small and it seems I cant live without my past coming up, even though nobody knows the truth but me and my ex. I've confronted her many times. I've tried to ignore the problems that came from it, but its gotten really bad. How do I deal with this? I just wanna live and let live.
2006-07-12 05:17:36 · 3 answers · asked by Billy the Kid 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is crazy, let her be crazy it isn't your problem, so don't let it get to you. (I know easier said than done) I would honestly consider trying to find a job elswhere, move out of town out of state if you can and leave these problems behind you. And try and make a better life, you can't make your ex behave (except through police action and that would be difficult to pull off). So just remove yourself from the situation.
Good luck bro, I'll pray for you.
2006-07-12 05:22:42 · answer #1 · answered by Teclis98 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If God brings you to it, He will bring you through it. Keep your faith in God and things will certainly start to happen in your favor. Dont let the stupid things your ex does keep you from pushin on everyday. She is your ex for a reason, leave it that way. dont feed into anything that she does because what goes around comes around. Keep your head up and dont these things that are going on around you stop you from living your life. everybody goes through a terrible phase in there lives, its how they deal with it that makes them stronger when they've come through it all. Just keep your hear ton God and he will surely take care of you. Sorry to hear about your situation and good luck with everything!!
2006-07-12 12:26:07 · answer #2 · answered by shawny2623 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is out for revenge.
2006-07-12 12:22:18 · answer #3 · answered by firewall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋