2006-07-12 05:18:59 · 79 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cause hes unfaithful.....
2006-07-12 05:20:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's just human nature. Woman do it just the same really , think about it if a guy that is sooo hot in your eyes come across your path trust me you will be looking , just because you cant help but to look. Men are same way only difference is women can tune it out once we are with someone we really love , men cant. Now if your not with him and your with your girl friends or even by yourself you will look. If your with him you wont , out of pure respect. Men only think with one side of their brain they do not have the ability to switch sides so in fact they are one sided lol. True though none the less women can switch between both sides of the brain. I wouldnt let it bother you too much unless he is just steadily starring and doing it all the time , in that case I would tell him that it bothers you when he does it in front of you. Hope this helps ya !!
2006-07-12 05:26:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it matter where you work up an appetite so long as you go home to eat?
Why deny ourselves pleasant visuals that cross our path?
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and many of us relish the opportunity to scrutinize what we do and don't like about things. Not only it it a study of them but a study of ourselves.
How many guys w/ a redhead fetish are with non-redheads? More than a few i'd guess. Do they cherish them any less?
Considering the effort many go through to get noticed, why should we feel the need to conspicuously avert noticing them?
There's famous people you think are hot. Does that cheapen your feelings for your man?
Let it go. You're up against hardwired evolution. Reserve the resentment for occasions where he obviously loses his train of thought because of it.
2006-07-13 22:13:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like window shopping you can look but you can't touch, Every Man will always look at any other female regardless if your his wife....Your the one who has him, Your the one he's with so stop being insecure.NOW If' he's cheated or you've found girls #'s on him then that's awholenother story...That's when you need to worry...But it all that's not going on then why don't you start to enjoy the view as well.....It's harder for us girls cause unless the guy is showing off some nice abs he looks just like any other guy....But a girl we has T AND A to look at in all different shpaes and sizes...Hell I Look too LOL
2006-07-12 05:23:15 · answer #4 · answered by Mary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you never....EVER look at other guys? It could be that he is being unfaithful or it could be that he just likes to admire the beauty of other girls. This never bothered me about guys because I was secure with the guy that I was with and that's all that matters. I think there is a double-standard there. From a ladies point of view-If a guy looks at other girls, we usually think "he's cheating" but it's not as big of a deal as if a girl looks at guys. Even guys make there own double-standard, they want to be able to look at girls but get jealous when girls look at guys.
The joys of life...
2006-07-12 05:27:24 · answer #5 · answered by Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is doing this while he is with you then he doesn't really love you. Everyone notices other people, it is human nature. However if a man loves a woman he respects her enough to do no more than a quick notice of other women before turning his attention fully on the woman he loves. Anything short of that and he not only doesn't love you the way you think he does, he doesn't respect you.
2006-07-12 05:22:08 · answer #6 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like trying to keep a dog from going after a steak, yes you may be hot and he may love you but everyone loves steak! As long as he isn't doing anything with them what's the problem. I stare at girls all day and my girlfriend told me I wouldn't be normal if I didn't!
To all the dumb a** women above and below that say he's a jerk let me ask you a question.... How often do you stare at some hot celebrity like Mathew McConohey or Brad Pitt and lust after them? yeah that's what I thought
2006-07-12 05:21:50 · answer #7 · answered by jmdavis333 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love and lust are two completely separate things. Why do you look at a chocolate cake when you're on a diet? Why do you look at a Ferrari even though you know you can't have one? It's not that he isn't attracted to you, but (and I don't mean this meanly), you're not the only pretty woman in the world. As humans (women included), we like to look at things...even things we can't have or don't want.
Hope this helps.
2006-07-12 05:25:10 · answer #8 · answered by Lord Tyrant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe I've ever met a guy that doesn't check out girls in public, even if he really is in love with his girl. It's almost an instinct for guys, when we were single we constantly were checking out hot girls and it sticks with us even after being in a relationship for years and years, no matter how into a girl we get. Your guy probably still loves you very much if he shows it, it's just a bad habit that's hard to break.
2006-07-12 05:23:43 · answer #9 · answered by eclint929 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats how men are... chances are he'll never make an advance at one of those girls or even cheat on you. Men just love to look at women... thats in our nature but that doesnt mean that he loves you any less or regards you any less or even thinks you are any less than those girls. I bet no other girl he looks at can compare to you in his eyes. So just accept that he will look... but dont try to be revengeful and start looking at every guy out there because it might lead to guys coming on to you more than you expect.
2006-07-12 05:23:25 · answer #10 · answered by Hot all over :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not lusting after them, don't worry about it. Maybe he's "appreciating the beauty of the female form", getting in touch with his latent artist deep inside. Ok, I'll stop the B.S. and get to the point. Men are pigs!!!!! Um.. ok, back to normal now. As long as he's not unfaithful (like going over and talking to them), don't stress out about this ... in fact you should be flattered that he's chosen you.. I mean I understand you are jealous about it. Men have a way of separating their viewing physical beauty (like looking at babes, cleavage, porn, etc.) from those that they truly love, because love means being attracted to the total package, the way you laugh, your common interests, etc. Compare the way he looks at you to the way he looks at the other girls. Do you see a difference?
2006-07-12 05:27:05 · answer #11 · answered by ♪ ♫ ☮ NYbron ☮ ♪ ♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋