Family & Relationships - 12 July 2006

im in a relationship with a guy that ive been with over a year now. it seems like in summers, instead of spending some time with me, he's out with his friends, going to pool, and blah blah. he calls me when he gets home, at around 12 AM.

i know this guy loves me, he has shown me that in many ways, but i have 2 weeks left here and im off to a different country for a month. i honestly feel sorta isolated and frusterated.

what do i do?

2006-07-12 06:05:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-12 06:05:27 · 22 answers · asked by <LittleFoot> 2 in Singles & Dating

dated 5 yrs, anytime there was a prob., i am always the kindof person that would call and talk about my feelings, and ask for her back in person//phone, so im wondering if she is so used to me putting forth so much effort, if i stop, will she want me back? ill try anything

2006-07-12 06:04:54 · 5 answers · asked by t2006s 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-12 06:03:47 · 39 answers · asked by j_rea000 1 in Singles & Dating

16 here.

2006-07-12 06:03:24 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-12 06:02:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it bad to want you if you are pretty,cute,smart,nice bodylikes to laugh and just all around a good person!? Some cool like that is awsome to me! mostly the inside counts tho.

2006-07-12 06:02:18 · 10 answers · asked by fletch 2 in Singles & Dating

I have 2 children and of course, we would have to move in to his house and rent my house out.
His kids 13 and 12 from a previous marriage suddenly out of no where demanded the spare bedroom in the house and he is buying them a bed. They live 2 blocks away from him and have never even spent the nite at his house.
Why are they all of the sudden so interested in staying overnite.
He asked me if my 15 yr old son would mind staying in the wreck room which is part of the garage because his sons who have never even been around have put their dibbs on the spare bedroom.
It has been a year now and they haven't spent the nite yet, but he is keeping them a bedroom there.
We are not going to marry until this issue is resolved.
I think his kids are being brats.

2006-07-12 06:01:07 · 7 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

My step dad and i dont really get along and im tired of him physically pushing me around.Lastnight i was laughing at him because he acts like he owns everything in the house.And just for that reason he walks inn my room and slapps me 2 times across my face.I got really mad when he did this i started crying.Then i hear him talking bad about me.I walk inn his room and start telling him that he needs to stop hitting me like that.He even more mad when i tell him that.So he chases me to my room and throws water in my face.Im seriously tired of thisI had called the cops the last time he did this to me.The cops didn't really do much.Well basically i just want to know what i can do about this because my little brother is turning just like him and its kinda sad.Is there anybody that can really tell me where i can get some help???I live in the LA area!

2006-07-12 06:00:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok. theres this boy and i have been friends with him for 14 years. we used to live right across the street from each other and we would be inseperable. but then i moved away. my grandparents still lived there so i got to see him every once and a while but it was never the same. his dad shot himself and his mom just recently got married again im so happy for them but they have to move. i cryed and cryed and cryed, so the main point of this story, i think i might like him. even though it is so strange for me to say i think that i always have and i have a feeling that he does to. i see all these movies where long term friendships from childhood turn into marriage and i just wonder. i dont know if i should tell him or not because i have a boyfriend right now...im afraid that i wont get to see him now that hes moving. what should i do...what should i say? i dont want to lose him forever...

2006-07-12 05:59:31 · 2 answers · asked by liz 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My son has lived with me on and off for the past 4 years after various problems in his life. Most of the time he's been out of work and I've struggled to cope financially. He got a job 2 months ago and just when I hoped I could see some light at the end of the tunnel, the first thing he does is gets a rented flat and moves out. I feel very angry and upset. Is this wrong?

2006-07-12 05:58:51 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I want to find a website that I can put mine and my man's picture together to find out what our babies would look like. Does anyone know of anything like that???

2006-07-12 05:58:47 · 8 answers · asked by cinney_2 2 in Family

am i going to go to hell if i do it before marrage? does god forgive that?

please help me out here

2006-07-12 05:58:02 · 21 answers · asked by eddiekishisawesome 1 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married September 2nd where do I need to be at at this point in my planning? What are good gifts to get my bridesmaids we are on a strict budget we are paying for most everything ourselves I cant afford to do much but i do want to thank them for being a part of my ceromony.

2006-07-12 05:57:43 · 12 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Weddings

He does pay child support. How does that work in the court system?

2006-07-12 05:57:31 · 12 answers · asked by sinneragain 4 in Family

I used to like him

2006-07-12 05:57:02 · 11 answers · asked by Momo K 1 in Friends

My bf and I love kids and are getting married soon. I can't wait to have one myself and am excited for the forthcoming year. We are both 21 and share our bday on March 21 (1985). Should we begin to try for a child next year or wait until we are around 30?

2006-07-12 05:56:01 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am not reffering to the worst kind of starring, the kind that makes you afraid. This would be a guy that looks at you with a smile but does not approch you. Does this make you uncomfortable, you like it, you hate it. What?

2006-07-12 05:55:22 · 36 answers · asked by John B 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been raising my Grandson for 13 years , he is now 16 . My daughter was going through a tough second pregnancy and asked me to help with him and he never left . He is my world , BUT, sometimes I ask myself, What are you doing ?, you already raised your kids !. He is my blood too , and I want the best for him . Is there anyone else out there doing the same thing ? Tell me how you handle it .

2006-07-12 05:55:19 · 10 answers · asked by vpsinbad50 6 in Friends

I recently had lunch with 8 girl friends. My 13 yr old is out for summer vacation. My son is very well behaved and polite. He even offered and then sat at a table next to us so that all 8 of us could sit at one table. My friend told me afterwards that I need to find something better for him to do. Then asked my son -you don't really like hanging out with all of us old women do you? I said rather upset that I guess I could have left him at home! My son said he would be more bored at home alone. Am I wrong for wanting my diabetic son with me when he has nothing else to do?

2006-07-12 05:55:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

wat dose it take to keep a man true and iterested in a relationship? so he's no ready to leave or cheat on u? best answer gets 10 points!!!!

2006-07-12 05:55:10 · 10 answers · asked by nani 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been married for ten years, I am a stay at home mom with a special needs son who needs me to be there for him. My husband and I no longer share a bedroom, he supports us and we have a good life. Do I stay for the kids and because life is not bad or do I try and find the love and intimacy I need. He is ok with being polyamorous and adding another man in my life even and does not want me to go but finding a good man willing to accept that is very difficult. I am tired of sleeping alone every night and not having someone to hold me and tell me they love me ....what would you do?

2006-07-12 05:55:04 · 15 answers · asked by Victoria K 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is really sweet and funny. Whenever I see him and or think about him my stomach feels like it's dropping down a fast elavator. When we are on the phone and he calls me one of his nicknames, I get butterflies and I smile in the weirdest way. We can tease each other, and we're really good friends. I feel so safe when I am just talking to him. It's so strange, because he doesn't seem to mind my bad habits, he says he likes me the way I am just fine. He gets my sense of humor and is open to my opinions. I know we have to see where this goes, but does it sound like love? Serious answers only!!!!!!! By the way, we've known each other WAY longer then we have been boyfriend/girlfriend......

2006-07-12 05:54:59 · 9 answers · asked by ~S~ is for Stephanie! 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

both of u are experienced...just trying not to let sex be an issue. and if not...how long could u stay in a relationship with out sex?

2006-07-12 05:53:51 · 30 answers · asked by MsNic 4 in Singles & Dating

does it hurt when u have sex fr the first time? or is that a myth?

2006-07-12 05:53:47 · 20 answers · asked by Ryan 2 in Singles & Dating

there is this girl that i realy like. but im not shure if she likes me. i just emailed her and told her she was pritty and i liked her but she has not respawnded. we like to hang out together i jsugt hope if she says no it wont ruin my frendship. plz help me???? does she like me??????????????

2006-07-12 05:53:47 · 11 answers · asked by googledcrazy 1 in Singles & Dating

My name is Jessi and just about every guy ive dated theyve called me a redneck or a good for nothing country girl...
-i dress nice and yet i love to play paintball and just have fun! but then again i do have a booty shakein party girl side too!!!

2006-07-12 05:53:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-12 05:52:42 · 20 answers · asked by alexandredz 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-12 05:52:36 · 29 answers · asked by Tammy 1 in Singles & Dating

I work in a hospital and I am always amazed at what kids will do to keep their parents out of a nursing home. Do most people realize you don't live in the hospital? We don't keep people their because they are elderly, we treat acute illness and then send mom and dad or grandpa on to live with the kids or to a nursing home or some other pre arranged home. I think some kids will go to any extent to keep the money their parents saved. Kids want it for themselves. They see it as their inhearitance and will go to any extreme to keep them out of anything that cost money they saved for their old age. What is your plan for your parents?

2006-07-12 05:52:29 · 11 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family