I have 2 children and of course, we would have to move in to his house and rent my house out.
His kids 13 and 12 from a previous marriage suddenly out of no where demanded the spare bedroom in the house and he is buying them a bed. They live 2 blocks away from him and have never even spent the nite at his house.
Why are they all of the sudden so interested in staying overnite.
He asked me if my 15 yr old son would mind staying in the wreck room which is part of the garage because his sons who have never even been around have put their dibbs on the spare bedroom.
It has been a year now and they haven't spent the nite yet, but he is keeping them a bedroom there.
We are not going to marry until this issue is resolved.
I think his kids are being brats.
2006-07-12 06:01:07 · 7 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are right. Don't get married until the issue is resolved. If i were you i wouldn't allow his 2 kids to move in.
2006-07-12 06:05:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is bothering you so much , why are you with him ? You knew he had kids and he knew you had kids . You should have worked this out before hand . Seems you want everything your way for your kids and nothing for his . Grow up . Put your 15 year old in a room of his own and put his kids in the wreck room and tell him good enough for my Johnny good enough for Sammy and Willy . Discuss things . Good Luck
2006-07-12 06:08:00 · answer #2 · answered by vpsinbad50 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 08:30:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The picture isn't all that clear but it what can be seen certainly doesn't look good. Sharing the advantages and disadvantages more or less equally would be a requirement for me to give a go ahead.
2006-07-12 06:08:48 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There'd be no way I would give up my house and allow my son to sleep in someone's else's wreck room. My kids come before any man.
2006-07-12 06:08:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are tell him move your kid in the house like part of the family or the weddings a no go you kid is there his only want a space that they don't even go to
2006-07-12 06:04:59 · answer #6 · answered by buzy_bee_21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are right.
2006-07-12 06:05:31 · answer #7 · answered by sarahmae6x9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋