both of u are experienced...just trying not to let sex be an issue. and if not...how long could u stay in a relationship with out sex?
2006-07-12 05:53:51 · 30 answers · asked by MsNic 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how long?
maybe a week or two.
2006-07-12 05:56:42 · answer #1 · answered by Zippy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Sex is a natural part of life. To suppress it just so it won't be an "issue" and expect a partner to do the same is both selfish and unrealistic. If pregnancy, disease or doubts of sexual orientation are the underlying causes of the self-imposed abstinence, all of those can be avoided and/or faced by the couple in a multitude of ways other than not having sex, unless the illness is paralyzing. If you're trying to see if your partner will stay faithful to you over an extended period of time and this is a test, then release that poor soul and let him or her find someone else who's not afraid to live in reality.
2006-07-12 06:06:27 · answer #2 · answered by Susan P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This would be called friendship. And yes it is possible. However if there is a sexual attraction on one or both of the "friends" part then it becomes difficult.
I have a friend who I have always had a monogamous relationship with, but she is gay. I have another friend which sexual attraction is not a factor because she is married and so am I. If however we both became single again that might change.
Good question and a very difficult one to answer without exception.
2006-07-12 06:04:10 · answer #3 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe it or not, there is more to life than sex. If you can live without having sex for a year than I think you should seek help. I am beautiful, and I saved myself for my husband. We have the strongest relationship I know. We are team. Nothing can stop us. And that is what life is about, NOT about giving yourself away to someone who won't remember your name the next day. You are worth something. You are a good person. You can be desired in a way that no other woman or man around you can understand.
You can be completely happy with yourself without bringing someone else into it.
We are sons and daughts of God. You are unique. You are a rare gem indeed. So don't go around causing more harm to yourself than you can imagin. Take care of yourself for your kids sake. Jennilee.
2006-07-12 05:59:50 · answer #4 · answered by Jennilee H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure!! easily extra perfect. because you artwork extra on arising a courting with him (which concerns the most contained in the destiny), extremely of purely getting actual with him. extremely in case you dont sense waiting, do not do it. it's going to in ordinary words wreck issues for you adult men, and also you'll sense sorry about it. your friends must be mature adequate to no longer look down on you because of your own alternatives, or theyre no longer very strong friends in any respect!! sit and talk with them about the way you sense and if theyre strong friends, they might want to diminish bypass into opposite. Having sex isnt what a courting is all about. in case you're able to construct a courting without sex, imagine of ways a lot extra of an emotional bond you adult men ought to have, and how a lot extra which will serve you in existence than it seems that a actual one? waiting makes your probabilities of you 2 arising an enduring courting a lot extra perfect. And if he's definitely worth it, he shouldnt stress you into something. So in total, you eventually end up having a extra perfect courting while not having sex, extremely in the previous you're prepared <3
2016-11-06 06:33:43 · answer #5 · answered by newnum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL 2 THE NO! I need that! What's the point of being in a relationship if you can't take it there? When you have sex, there is a certain feeling and intensity that two people share (not nescessarily love but its definitely something you don't feel by just sharing stories). Plus...I got needs man. A vibrator isn't enough.
2006-07-12 05:59:57 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Unless the other person is gay. I don't believe it is possible to have a relationship with a person of the opposite sex that doesn't at some time "go there".
2006-07-12 05:57:44 · answer #7 · answered by pknutson_sws 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having it on your mind defeats the purpose, might as well have it. Holding off creates a desire for it, but it still becomes an issue after having it.
2006-07-12 06:02:28 · answer #8 · answered by wallyade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure; there arew lots of ways that people form relationships. I think my parents were monogamous withour sex, and they've been married over 40 years.
2006-07-12 05:57:41 · answer #9 · answered by Randall K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Not completely possible. Although there does come some times in UR life when you might want to go some time w/o it. Just not an extended period of time.
2006-07-12 05:56:44 · answer #10 · answered by Hello A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be in total in control of youself. If not why bother being monogomous.
2006-07-12 07:13:47 · answer #11 · answered by Precious lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋