Well I met this guy two weeks ago and everything has been going okay but I am not sure if he wants to be with me. Sometimes he acts nice, and attentive. Lately he has been acting weird and standoffish. I don't have time to play games. I mean is he for real or do I need to let that go and focus on someone else. I think I have issues because when he was paying me a lot of attention, I was not really into him, but now that he is not, I want him to talk to me on a daily basis. I got other candidates, but I think I am really starting to like him. How can I get him to be interested in me again?
2006-07-12 05:24:48 · 11 answers · asked by bella 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well for the past week we have been miscommunication. He thinks that I am just using him, but I am not. I think I really like him, I just want him to start acting like he likes me again
2006-07-12 07:16:59 · update #1
Bella, honey. this is men all over. he is playing games. hes trying to get you more bothered about him. See how you need him now hes become a little distant. Obviously hes into you. Why would it be any other way - hes just being a typical man. If i were you, i would play it like a real woman. Oooze sex whenever you see him - be confident, use your charm - make sure you look good, smell even better. The key is to make him understand exactly how good you are capable of making him feel. And when he realises that, he will stop all that stand offish crap hes been messing you about with - and them my darling, its time to do some messing of your own. Treat them mean, keep them keen. Works EVERY time sweetie. You do not have any issues.
2006-07-12 05:34:28 · answer #1 · answered by Ms.Trouble 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems as though you are both into the other when you have to do the chasing. Once the chase is over the fun is over and seems to switch to the other person. You can't get a good idea in 2 weeks what a relationship will be like. You can continue to play the games until it gets better or just move on to someone else.
2006-07-12 05:30:29 · answer #2 · answered by Butkusman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... We even difficult to understand our own feeling. So difficult to say he still like u or not. you got to wait & see. If he's really like you, he will come to you. If not...
I am in that kinda situation too. Very sweet guy, let's call "A" I met. But I made a huge mistake as at 1st "A" just a guy I get to know. "A" saw me kissing another guy in club. After I spend time with "A" I feel I like "A" but when I met "A" again "A" ignore me. I was keep on looking at "A" but only t guy, let's call "B" beside "A" noticed me & happen that "B" is "A" flat-mate. I still like "A" but "A" just reply when I started contact him but "A" didn't start contect me. What to do? Should I try for "A"? or Give "B" a chance?
2006-07-12 05:43:37 · answer #3 · answered by PP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you can't get anyone interested in you because you don't control their mind. Attraction is not something you turn on or off. If he was attracted to you initially, he saw something in you that he liked. It's posible that over time he realized that the things he doesn't like about outweigh the things he does like. That's when they start looking for someone else.
From the sound of your question though, it seems you think of guys as a kind of buffet...try a little of everything...go back for more of the stuff you like. Guys see this (we're not completely clueless) and it turns us off.
My advice? Tell him to run away from you as fast as he can.
2006-07-12 05:39:35 · answer #4 · answered by Lord Tyrant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure your behavior didn't change when you figured out you liked him.
Lots of women go from "Mary Anne" to "Ginger" when they realize they dig a guy. Its happens frequently and is a disconcerting turn-off, in my opinion. Most guys are looking for one or the other and I think most really want a "Mary Anne".
Good luck.
2006-07-12 05:30:16 · answer #5 · answered by themightyvacillator 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He prob likes you. Guys need a buffer in the beginning. If you come on too strong and needy we pull back. Play just a little hard to get and you will see if he does like you.
2006-07-12 05:30:12 · answer #6 · answered by Westport 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't play games. The closest thing to a game we do is act differently when we're with our friends than we do when we're with women. If he's sending mixed messages, he's either insecure with himself, unsure of what he wants, or responding to your own games.
2006-07-12 05:30:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. Well, make sure you don't become obsessed. Like, don't outwardly go out of your way to talk to him or hang out with him. Instead do it in subtle ways. Be nice to him, talk about things HE likes. Touch him in little ways like poking him or playfully shoving him. Make sure that it seems to him it's POSSIBLE that you like him, but make sure he doesn't know for sure. And be ABSOLUTELY SURE that he knows you don't have a boyfriend, and wait for HIM make the first move.
2006-07-12 05:31:26 · answer #8 · answered by Allison 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just send him the right messages so he's not confused. Make sure you let him know your available and interested.
2006-07-12 05:26:10 · answer #9 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is some one that you would just keep as a good friend i do that to all the guys who do that to meeh
2006-07-12 05:27:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋