Family & Relationships - 12 July 2006

Ok this guy has known this girl since he's started college for like two years and they are really good friends. She has just recently had a son and he's been there for her through the thick and thin, the good and the bad, etc. Now everytime he asks the girl to be with him (girlfriend status) she always says No and makes up some excuse. But just recently he's asked her to be with him again and the same results happen. Now here is the perdictament...They have gotten really close in the past couple of months and he's finally got the chance to kiss her. And she says that she Loves him. But whenever she is around all his friends she is saying that he is her boyfriend, he is my man, me and him are "Talking" etc. She is even starting to say it to her own family members. Now if that's the case Why is she telling all his friends and her family that he is her man/boyfriend but won't say Yes whenever he asks her to be his girlfriend? Is she playing him for her own selfish needs or is it deeper?

2006-07-12 08:25:35 · 12 answers · asked by The Plague 4 in Singles & Dating

i want this girl so bad. i just cant get her out of my mind and it sucks. it sucks because she already told me she sees me as a friend. i like her as a friend but shes so hot i cant resist thinking of hooking up with her and such. any ideas on how i can get over this or what i should do. i dont know if she could change her mind on the friend thing.

2006-07-12 08:25:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What can I do without totally pissing my girl off to let her know she is getting fat and undesireable to me. She eats crappy food and is lazy, it's no wonder she's gaining weight. How do I tell her she needs to do something?

2006-07-12 08:25:03 · 18 answers · asked by fricka 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i told u all that me and my bf love each other, n how things were going in the opposite direction... and how he took evrything as a joke... well we broke up today

and i dont know how i feel about it... i feel sad... yet.. not different... i dont know

please help me... how should i feel?? im confused

2006-07-12 08:24:24 · 5 answers · asked by GC_RiotGrl_879 3 in Singles & Dating

he was my best friend then we decied to date long distance he broke up with me after things got serious what do you think happened?

2006-07-12 08:24:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-12 08:23:47 · 3 answers · asked by Sabina_Rois 5 in Weddings

there's this guy at my church i like (i think he likes me too). i got his number on sunday and called him monday night. we talked for a half hour till he got 2 work-it was a good conversation. i was hoping he'd call me yesterday, but didnt. should i call him tonight? or would i seem too desperate to talk to him?

2006-07-12 08:22:48 · 6 answers · asked by my-moms-name 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, in one of my past questions i spoke about a friend who was not speaking to me. but now she has got worse - she is blatantly ignoring me and walking off whenver i try and say something, and is making snidey comments and stupid faces about anything i say. it is driving me crazy, but i am normally a v well tempered person. so, should i have a go at her about it seeing as she will not talk it through, or ignore her and wait for it to blow over. btw - she thinks she is better than me in everyway, and others too.

2006-07-12 08:22:42 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

in the whole united states, where would you want to live and why? why is it such a great place. please give me real answers...im truly interesed

2006-07-12 08:22:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok my x-bf is all over me now but he keeps bouncing back and forth from me to my friend. But i like his best friend who is 6 years older than me i still like my x but i like his best friend a lot more and his best friend likes me!! So should i just go for my x's best friend because we like each other a lot and my x is just using me for a booty call!! So what should i do go for his best friend or stick with my X?

2006-07-12 08:22:14 · 12 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Singles & Dating

I would like to send this girl I like at work some flowers. is that going over board?

2006-07-12 08:21:56 · 4 answers · asked by acerboy278 3 in Singles & Dating

Huh? Anyone like meatheads?

2006-07-12 08:21:46 · 9 answers · asked by guyernest1976 1 in Friends

I have an old friend from childhood. In our mid 20's, we were roomates for a year. After she moved out, I talked with her for about 5 times in 7 years. She never returns calls. She never answers the phone. I suggested making plans to get together. We haven't made any plans to get together. She is now having an extravagent wedding & invited me. I am trying to figure out if I should go to this wedding. I am obviously not a very important part of her life at at. In addition, there is a wedding shower, bachelorette party, etc...

2006-07-12 08:21:17 · 21 answers · asked by Amanda80 2 in Weddings

2006-07-12 08:21:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was married for 12yrs. My wife changed over the years and became someone I don't even know now. Her morals changed, ideals etc. She stopped loving me and being a wife 3yrs ago even though we stayed together until last Nov. I still love her even though we are separated and I want her to come back home.

2006-07-12 08:20:33 · 23 answers · asked by scheib65 2 in Marriage & Divorce

take the covers off the bed....will the toppings satain the sheets ??

2006-07-12 08:19:51 · 12 answers · asked by old working man 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-12 08:19:44 · 17 answers · asked by henryskia 2 in Singles & Dating

What wiLL be the id of kim chui i Like her im her idoL so much!!^-^

2006-07-12 08:19:38 · 1 answers · asked by Maying Pabico 1 in Friends

2006-07-12 08:19:25 · 16 answers · asked by Mr. Anonymous 3 in Singles & Dating

ok, so i've been on the birth control pill for about 2 years already, and I stopped taking it about 3 weeks ago, what are the chances of me getting pregnant, or shall I say, how long does it take for me to get pregnant?

2006-07-12 08:19:24 · 12 answers · asked by the*cellphone*chik 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just found out i'm related to Pocahontas, John Smith, James Madison, and George Washington

Isn't that cool?

2006-07-12 08:19:02 · 20 answers · asked by acamn91 3 in Family

2006-07-12 08:18:48 · 10 answers · asked by lyssa1913 2 in Family

2006-07-12 08:18:14 · 10 answers · asked by foreveralways14 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-12 08:18:08 · 11 answers · asked by dixee_bell 1 in Weddings

2006-07-12 08:17:39 · 42 answers · asked by Owl Dat 1 in Singles & Dating

if some girl typed this to ur bf comment list thing on myspace what woudl u do??? plz help i don't knoe what to do !!!!
thsi si what she wrote l
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haha, tonight was so fun. and i wouldve died during hostel if i wasnt holding your hand. i loved how everyone was huddled around you like we were gonna die. haha. that was pretty funny, so was when you kristen kneed you in the nose, and when we made the new threesome position.

2006-07-12 08:17:39 · 32 answers · asked by Kali Gavette 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-12 08:17:27 · 10 answers · asked by mami yankke 1 in Friends

Besides being dumped, which is painful, what would hurt most- if their new fling was uglier or better looking than you?

2006-07-12 08:17:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need an idea for a good first date. Not any of the usual dinner/movie crap.

2006-07-12 08:17:16 · 4 answers · asked by mcskillins 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-12 08:16:52 · 5 answers · asked by rpmint 2 in Singles & Dating