2006-07-12 08:18:14 · 10 answers · asked by foreveralways14 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Return the favor and leave...
2006-07-12 08:21:55 · answer #1 · answered by dreamofme0202 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not to be whatever... but have you set that expectation in your relationship, or has his giving dwindled off recently?
If you giving and him doing nothing is and has been the way that your relationship has run to this point, or even if he has stopped giving in the recent past, sit him down and tell him how you feel. If you have been happy and fine with doing everything up to this point in time, he won't understand why you are mad... and he will probably become defensive.
Let him know that you are doing everything, and that you would like him to pitch in. Ask him which chores he would like to take over and how often he would be willing to do them. Ask him to take care of a few things for you so that you can either take care of other things around the house or have a bit of time for yourself.
Men generally aren't good at reading minds, nor are they good at picking up hints. BUT, (generally again) men like to pitch in, especially if it is to help out the women they love. Don't nag, don't scream or yell, just ask and see what happens.
Good luck!
2006-07-12 15:28:48 · answer #2 · answered by Only_my_opinion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically he is taking advantage of you for what you are worth. hei is a loser. if i were i would stop now giving him things.
I have been in the same position you are now in. its not worth you time and energy girl. he is no good. i had a guy to that to me once. i gave him everything and i got nothing in return ever.
2006-07-12 15:23:06 · answer #3 · answered by honey2bloved 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to turn the light out when he leaves, cause you're GONE! You deserve some help, and if he's not willing to provide it, you need to lose about 200 pounds of ugly....HIM! At least, if you left him, you wouldn't have to clean up his mess.
2006-07-12 15:27:43 · answer #4 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you do when you do everything for a woman but she does nothing in return? Door swings both ways. YOU DUMP THEM!
2006-07-12 15:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by tiger_skratch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump his ****, a relationship is a 50/50 partnership you both put equal effort into the relationship for it work.. if your doing everything for him hes using you.. u can do much better find someone whos willing to put the effort in for you
2006-07-12 15:24:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new man who isn't selfish.
2006-07-12 15:21:35 · answer #7 · answered by cass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone who appreciates the special person u r, goodluck
2006-07-12 15:22:42 · answer #8 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him.
2006-07-12 15:22:57 · answer #9 · answered by Bill R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM
2006-07-12 15:23:06 · answer #10 · answered by russellmcmillen1947 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋