Ok this guy has known this girl since he's started college for like two years and they are really good friends. She has just recently had a son and he's been there for her through the thick and thin, the good and the bad, etc. Now everytime he asks the girl to be with him (girlfriend status) she always says No and makes up some excuse. But just recently he's asked her to be with him again and the same results happen. Now here is the perdictament...They have gotten really close in the past couple of months and he's finally got the chance to kiss her. And she says that she Loves him. But whenever she is around all his friends she is saying that he is her boyfriend, he is my man, me and him are "Talking" etc. She is even starting to say it to her own family members. Now if that's the case Why is she telling all his friends and her family that he is her man/boyfriend but won't say Yes whenever he asks her to be his girlfriend? Is she playing him for her own selfish needs or is it deeper?
2006-07-12 08:25:35 · 12 answers · asked by The Plague 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it sounds like she just needs a man in her life, not a bf just a man, so i would say yes she is definitely playing him for her needs
2006-07-12 08:33:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read what you posted twice! You will get her and after she has been totally abused by whatever "alleged male" she is STILL dealing with. Holding out for HIM! Nope, he is not interested!
Why are you dealing with some-body's "baby mama" drama..she is holding out and on to the man who does not want her or their son! What is wrong with handsome YOU and your life that you WANT a female that does not even have enough sense to secure a decent boyfriend, potential college graduate, progressive bread winner for her and technically fatherless son? Watch Jerry Springer...see yourself, HER, HIM and the kid. Where do you think she will be in 3 years? How many more baby daddy's will she have? Respectfully, she is not just playing ...sounds like somebody thinks they are " big pimping".
2006-07-12 08:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by KC31 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the only way to make sure is to ask her again. If she says no and then she still keeps on claiming him as her man then yeah she's playing him. If she says yes then what the fudge. I mean really if she says no after he's asks her this time then i would tell her then why the hell are you claiming me, just leave me be then. That's if he has the balls to tell her that.
2006-07-12 08:32:09 · answer #3 · answered by oaklandolee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. Seems strange that she would do that. OH YEAH! No it wouldn't. She's a bia! Look sweetie, girls that play mind games like that are a waste of energy. There are plenty of women out there who can treat your boy the way he should be treated. He needs to just step off and move on.
2006-07-12 08:30:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
possibly he ought to ask her one very last time.....ONE very last TIME. and if she says no again, enable her flow. of route she has some feeling for him yet when she will't be staight as a lot as him and his friends then what the hell? is she physco? jp, he needs to confer with her and locate out what her deal is. i do not imagine she's taking section in him, she ought to easily be afaid of her own emotions....desire that helped, even only a smidge
2016-10-14 09:51:16 · answer #5 · answered by silvi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think the girl is playing him. i dont think the girl knows what she wants sounds like she confused, maybe shes been hurt real bad and is afraid of relationships that get to serious, give the girl some time, maybe she'll figure it out.
2006-07-12 08:33:57 · answer #6 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she doest want him to look bad in front of his friend but doesn't think he is good enough for her family.....i dont kno thats a tricky question.
2006-07-12 08:35:56 · answer #7 · answered by pisces_dreamer06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seem like she is playin him she tells his friends and family so they don't tell him to stop takin care if her and he son. he should just leave her and find someone elsa for real
2006-07-12 08:31:37 · answer #8 · answered by ej109163 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like the poor girl doesnt know what she wants.
If it is for real it will happen. just pray for what will be.
2006-07-12 08:28:55 · answer #9 · answered by CatLambe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is being played. Seriously being played!!!!
2006-07-12 08:33:39 · answer #10 · answered by Deah09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋