2006-07-12 08:17:39 · 42 answers · asked by Owl Dat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do not take him back.If he did this once then there's a chance of him doing it again.Think about this,what if the girl wants him back? If you want to risk someone breaking your heart again then go for it.But I wouldnt
2006-07-12 08:19:54 · answer #1 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know how long have u being seeing each other but the suggestion i make is that,
he left u for some other girl which is wrong.if he would have had a personal dispute with u and u couldnt have solved it then it would have been differebt but hurting u just for someone else and then hurting that someone else for u.
he is messed up and i really dont think u should go back atleast till the time he makes u feel his love,
i am a guy and i know.just ignore him completely and if he has one bit of truth in it he will prove it to u.
reply on my mail and tell me if u think what i said makes sense
address is brat_punk1987@yahoo.com
2006-07-12 08:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by brat_punk1987 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell that FOOL to move and leave you the HELL alone!!!!!!!!!!! Don't wimp out over this sorry *****!!!! Show him you are better than that and tell him to move ON like he did when he left for the other. Don't be desperate girl!!! Stand up for yourself and show some back bone. We as women need to stop all that madness. Maybe when women stop letting that type of madness go on in our lives, these men will take us seriously and treat us BETTER!!! Think before you leap! Note: Remember how you felt when you found out about him leaving you for another. Too many fish in the sea and I suggest you get started and fish for another!!! Tell him this ain't the shopping center because there's no refunds or returns HERE!!
2006-07-12 08:31:13 · answer #3 · answered by twilight1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't even take him back if I were you! He LEFT YOU FOR ANOTHER GIRL!!! Red flags should be hanging above your head. There are plenty of guys who would love to go out with you. So let this dude go and continue moving on with your life.
2006-07-12 08:20:17 · answer #4 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its foolishness to accept him because the time u accept him he is going to take liberty and again a day will come when he will leave u for another girl and this is a never ending process ,be strong enough and just avoid him u may deserve someonebetter than him best of luck!
2006-07-12 08:26:54 · answer #5 · answered by farha k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a very fickle thing and he has left u once what makes u think he won't do it again but if you do love him i know how hard it is to say no but you have to think to yourself will u be any better this time around will things be different if you look inside yourself you will find the answers
2006-07-12 08:22:31 · answer #6 · answered by iflifewerebeautiful 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, let me tell you.....My lover done that to me and i took them back and they had the girl they left me for coming to the house not while i was gone but while i was there saying they was friend.....i was blind by love just for a lil while until i caught thme kissing in front of me.......it was the worst relationship i ever been in my life.
2006-07-12 08:27:06 · answer #7 · answered by SHEILA D 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girl please......you better not.... the only reason he's coming back to you is cuz no other girl will have his sorry a**... If you take him back, he'll eventually find another girl to run off with.
2006-07-12 08:21:27 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to live on pins and needles wondering if he will leave again good luck just don't say "ouch" when they stick you.
A pattern is only a pattern if you allow him to create one.
He wants to come back are you welcoming him in your door, if so, I hope it's a revolving one because you don't know if he's going to be running in and out of it when he feels to do so.
2006-07-12 08:25:23 · answer #9 · answered by words from the heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I was in the same situation. Don't take him back, please don't. You deserve better. I know I did. I found myself another boyfriend and we've been together for almost 6 months now. There's plently of men out there.
2006-07-12 08:46:27 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Ms. Heart♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋