I have known this man for the past seven years. I have thought there was a interest between us. He was married at the time. Now he's divorced. I've asked him if he's interested in dating and he say's "I don't want to ruin our friendship". Then he turns around and starts hitting on me. I can deal with the fact if he's not interested, but it's frustrating to play see-saw with it.
I think he's scared, since he's been married three times. I've been married twice. One thing I have learned is that if a man isn't interested, then he's not. He doesn't flirt or lead a person on. Then again, if a person is interested, they will flirt and ask you out.
This one is different. He's a little of both. What do you think? Should I just give him time. Since divorces are hard and time is needed to heal. It's been about 8 months. Or should I just say see ya!?
I'm interested to see anyones opinion. Thanks.
2006-07-07
07:02:23
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