and its not even because of the fact that im single now...its because of the fact that the person i was with was so quick to walk away from a 2 year relationship/20 year friendship. everybody always thinks that the grass is greener so they dont even attempt to work with what they have. dont get me wrong if its just a bad relationship then its just bad. but if there were only a few minor issues...why not work at making them right? no one is perfect.
2006-07-07 07:02:02 · 7 answers · asked by MsNic 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oooohhh, how I hear you, I'm sitting at work right now and I'm doing all I can do to stop from crying....the worst part is that I keep doubting my own sanity...I want to be cold and unfeeling like all of those other people out there.....I'm starting to think that they are the lucky ones....I have tried to dig myself out of this hole so many times and I just keep ending up inside of it....I love him and I always will love him but right now all I can think of is emptying my mind of any memories of the 5 yrs. we have been together...I almost HATE myself for loving someone and I'm not sure that I ever want anything to do with that word again.
I'm sorry for your pain, I feel it more than you know and it cuts, nags, burns, presses, rips and tears all of the life right out of you until all you feel like is one big shell of a person.
My thoughts are with you hon.
2006-07-07 07:17:33 · answer #1 · answered by Blue_Girl 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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Hello again. My dad passed away when I was about 24. I am 33 now. I had gotten arrested for marijuana and was on probation at the time. I went in to see my probation officer, and he gave me a urine test which I failed. He then had me sent directly to jail. After my second or third day of being in there I called home and my sister-in-law answered the phone and told me that my mom needed to talk to me. I had a suspicion of what had happened as soon as she said that. I then had to stay another two days in that place before I could get released. That was the worst time of my life: something I wouldn't wish on anyone. I know, kind of, what you are going through and hope that you have the strength to hang in there. It will get better, but you have to want it to. Remember the good times that you had with your father, but dwell in the past. Just know that he would want what is best for you and for you to keep on living. Do everything as if he were watching, and just think about how he is smiling from above watching you grow into a beautiful person. Talk to him often as if he were still there. Close your eyes and open your heart, and you will probably be able to hear him respond. You could start volunteering your time at night to work with animals or those less fortunate, even though it doesn't seem there are those less fortunate than you right now. Doing good things for others always seems to make me feel better. I'll keep you in my prayers dear. Just remember that there are people that care about you.
2016-04-11 00:14:48 · answer #2 · answered by Shane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man I think your lucky to even have a relatiopnship! I havent caght a single guys attention. I still might be young but I belive love is no age. I was friends with a guy sence kindergarden and then my dad's job moved us accross the globe then back. And there he was my guyfriend and crush w/ a girl.Ever sence that ive been scared to love again. Be glad you were in a relationship. I hope this has made you feel better because it really hurts to type it down. My love life is a total falure. I really spilled my heart onto this page.
2006-07-07 07:12:00 · answer #3 · answered by redhead hottie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2015-08-24 04:07:20 · answer #4 · answered by Mic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, I've lost my faith in love. How is it that a guy can say the words make the plans(marriage) and then just walk away like you were nothing. Yeah I know I'm better off without him, but it still sucks. I wish I could be cold hearted, but it's just not in my nature. I feel for you. Good luck
2006-07-07 07:48:25 · answer #5 · answered by j_t3006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, he should have stayed with you. Everyone will have minor issues and no one is perfectly compatable. In a few months he will miss what ya'll had and try and come back.
2006-07-07 07:05:59 · answer #6 · answered by hhsgirl2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,me.I've decided to be a gigilo and leave the emotions on the back burner!
2006-07-07 07:09:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i lost my love to but you will find another love tht is even better
2006-07-07 07:08:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. I lost faith. My wife of 9 years (14 years altogether), mother of my two children, wants out of our marriage because she "wants to follow her heart". WTF?
2006-07-07 07:45:39 · answer #9 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋