I was this shy never talk about sexual things and now i am on the computer all the time and on teenchat and i don't know how to get back to my other self! I don't want to be sexual. I have more fun just talking with a guy about other things then sex. Please help me, even if you think i am crazy! I just don't like how i feel being sexual!
2006-07-07 07:16:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
people have asked me how old i am so i am going to tell you. this is why it worries me! i am only 15!
2006-07-07 07:39:41 · update #1
The first step, as unfortunate as it may seem, is to remove yourself from chat for a while. Try it for a few weeks - cold turkey - and develop some real-life relationships. You're not likely to talk about sex so much in a restaurant with a guy. Try that and see what happens - it sounds like you've got a lot to offer. Good luck.
2006-07-07 07:21:59 · answer #1 · answered by creativeambience 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what was your other self? If you are not ready to discuss sex then that is okay especially if you are under age. Sex is something that should never be rushed. Yeah hormones etc kick in and you get hot and heavy but that usually leads to trouble (pregnancy etc). Enjoy your life and experience all the fun things it offers. Not saying that sex is not fun but again there is a time for everything. So use your judgment and don't give in to peer pressure. Take care and be careful.
2006-07-07 14:24:33 · answer #2 · answered by D baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could see a councilor to find out why you don't like the self you've become. There's obviously something different about you that you can't let go of, i.e., being sexual, but you also don't like it. You need to get to the root of why it bothers you so much and try to strike a balance. You don't have to be one way or the other. You can be both and that is healthy.
2006-07-07 14:21:39 · answer #3 · answered by Pinky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have some WILLPOWER, and SELF CONTROL! You sound like you have an addiction. You are clinging to the forbidden - so to speak. You've forbidden yourself from sex talk on the computer, but now that you've opened "Pandora's Box" you won't stop!
Keyword: "WON'T"
You're thriving on Guilty Pleasures! The guilt is not enough to make you stop? Are you 40 yrs. old in teenchat or something? Tell me does it turn you on? Get to know yourself! If you want to really stop - you will. Or NOT!
2006-07-07 14:34:43 · answer #4 · answered by Jai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you are a very good woman for doesn't want to be sexual. Believe me, there is nothing wrong with you. You are just FINE. One day u will find someone to talk about it, not in sexual way, but in love...
2006-07-07 14:28:38 · answer #5 · answered by angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to get back your other self is to do what the other self used to do before you got all sucked in to the teen chat sex stuff. Just stop doing it.
2006-07-07 14:21:05 · answer #6 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nobody's holding a gun to your head and telling you to be a lush. just have self controll and respect for yourself and stop it before it gets out of controll.
or pretty soon you'll find yourself posting nasty pictures on the internet....lol
the internet can be a wealth of information and learning but it can also be dangerous and corrupting....depending how you use it.
2006-07-07 14:23:23 · answer #7 · answered by mikey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being sexual happens and maybe you feel you have some type of control over yourlife if you are sexual but i must say to calm yourself down before you get into trouble
2006-07-07 14:20:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok just dont go into those teenchat thingys anymore, i think it is best if u rest a little from those things, everytime you talk to someone just remember your old stuff and sooner or later you will get used to who you used to be and you will start to change again, it will be hard but if you really want to go back to yourself then you will change. honestly.
2006-07-07 14:21:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourselef and everbody will like that.
2006-07-07 14:23:08 · answer #10 · answered by genocyber69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋