shes been 2 my house a jillion times and she only invited me over once. We've been bffs since 4th grade. she invites her other friend shelby over a jillion times. am i a bad friend? why wont she invite me over? it really hurts inside 2 think these things!!!
2006-07-07 07:02:04 · 7 answers · asked by Alyssa 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ps please dont report me for wrong category this is the only place she goes!
2006-07-07 07:03:18 · update #1
Actually lol friends and family is the right section for this but whatever i don't care : P
It is possible that your friend doesn't see you as such good friends as you see her but it could also be because she's scared to invite you to her house. Maybe her house isn't as nice and she thinks that you'll think lower of her, maybe she's embarassed.. it's possible that she's got annoying siblings, her parents might not be getting along and fight a lot, or are getting a divorce. There are a million possibilities. It's possiblel her parents are just strict or maybe she's hiding something that you might find out going to her house.. she could be trying to protect you. Maybe she goes to your house cause she wants to get away, can't stand being in her house or it could just simply be that she thinks that your house is more fun.
Most likely it's nothing of personal against you.. how bout next time you guys are getting together, you could say something like so do you want to come to my house or do you want me to go to your house? She'll most likely (according to what you're saying) say she wants to go to your house so say something like: but your house is so much more fun, mine's so boring. Maybe by her reaction you'll get an idea of why she doesn't invite you over. Hope it helps ♥
2006-07-07 11:32:55 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica Cohen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get more friends! My best firned had been my friend for 7 years before she ever spent the night at my house, then she moved in with me for 3 months, so maybe she is just uncomfortable with having you over.
2006-07-07 14:07:45 · answer #2 · answered by hhsgirl2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why she rarely invites you over. There could be a really good reason, or perhaps she feels more comfortable at your place with you.
2006-07-07 14:06:37 · answer #3 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she thinks that her house isnt a good place to hang out, i go over to friends houses all the time but only a few have actually been to my house.
2006-07-07 14:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by a-ren 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she doesn't invite you over because her parents are strict.
maybe she thinks doing stuff at your house is more fun.
2006-07-07 14:06:30 · answer #5 · answered by handydaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a good idea...........
Shelby is also ur friend ryt??
Go wid Shelby and ur bff....then ask ur bff if u and shelby cud go over 2 her howz..
If she says no...she's hiding sumthing
2006-07-07 16:20:47 · answer #6 · answered by Tinaaaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares
2006-07-07 14:07:21 · answer #7 · answered by ANUBIS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋