Family & Relationships - 5 July 2006

I've been a relationship for 8 years,with a long break in between. 6 months ago I started getting wierd feelings about a girl he works with. he is outside sales and she works for the vendor..so I knew she had his # and had to call from time to time..but this particular person ..just gave me wierd vibes.So, I asked about it and he said they are just co-workers and that is all he talks to her about. but, it got wierd..she called at weird hours or if she'd call he'd not answer or hang up as soon as i came around...plus she started texting him..which co-workers dont do.anyway, I started doing some investigating...well about a month ago..I found out he talks to her everyday (they are good friends),they text everyday, and hang out! ...I confronted him when he lied about going to a friends house and ended up going to a her party...he lied about the whole thing....he tells me that he didn't want to tell me because he was afraid of what i would say. I dont get upset..why would he do this to me?

2006-07-05 04:43:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you love it?

2006-07-05 04:43:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My soon to be ex does not want the home but is entitled to half of its value. We live in Indiana.

2006-07-05 04:42:55 · 19 answers · asked by Larry T 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I want real reasons, please! Does it feel better? Is it fun because it's taboo? Let me know.

2006-07-05 04:42:39 · 15 answers · asked by Rachel M 3 in Singles & Dating

This guy I still think about all the time is afraid of being with me right now because he knows my ex. I caught my ex cheating on me so that is why we are apart, it has been a really hard year for me dealing with it, I ran into this guy at the bar one night(the guy who is kinda friends with the ex)and really got along well with conversation, we ended up sleeping in the same bed that night(cuddling only, he was a complete gentlemen) the next morning things were awkward, I heard through a mutual friend that he likes me but is freaked about my ex. The last time I saw him he came to me and said"your killing me", but my ex was there so we had to keep the conversation at a minimum. I still think about this guy all the time, is this something to hold onto in hopes that one day we will get past the ex factor, or should i let it go and hope to get over it soon?

2006-07-05 04:42:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-05 04:42:03 · 2 answers · asked by edward b 3 in Singles & Dating

We always share very open sex and I have been totally too exhausted to have sex before, so I introduced him to jacking off for me instead of going thru intercourse. This morning we were engaged in intercourse and he stops and whacks off. I am a little disappointed. Is he just tired, or what do you think of that?

2006-07-05 04:41:41 · 20 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Between my husband and mines brothers and sisters there are 6 nephews and 7 nieces and one on the way.So 13 with the 14th here in a couple weeks.Do you have a large family?

2006-07-05 04:41:34 · 16 answers · asked by ♥My 2 Cents♥ 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

well i am turning 14 and i need some ideas about what t do, i live in florida and i thought it would be a good itea to have a night birthday party at the beach. any ideas on what to do???

2006-07-05 04:40:13 · 3 answers · asked by lauren r 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-05 04:39:46 · 4 answers · asked by nik_mueller19992001 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I went to a BBQ yesterday and I was the only one who didn't know everyone. I tried to make conversation, but people were being very rude and ignoring me. Why are some people like that?

2006-07-05 04:39:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am not sure of the spelling but this is a special person with whom I would like to make contact with after more than forty years.

2006-07-05 04:39:04 · 1 answers · asked by banananose_89117 7 in Friends

each other well the problem is my parents r against this relationship coz he is not good looking what should i do

2006-07-05 04:38:52 · 17 answers · asked by hot chilly 1 in Family

How does one get ahead? I work full time, I need a loan and have terrible credit. Spend days crying because my husband and I both work and still are in debt. We don't have any bad spending habits - Unless you call feeding your kids bad - Does anyone know of a lender who will provide an unsecured loan to someone with bad credit?

2006-07-05 04:38:27 · 13 answers · asked by Kim 1 in Family

i dont know what to think... but i dont think hes cheating or has the intention to b/c we are ALWAYS TOGETHER AND WE HAVE a great relationship and are communication skills are great.... and also he doesnt know that i know....

1.what should i think about him telling her that?

2. should i let him know that i know? i found out b/c she left a comment on his page. but he hasnt checked it yet) its throught myspace?

thanx

2006-07-05 04:38:15 · 14 answers · asked by pisces_dreamer06 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

And you found out the person they are with is married, would you contact that person's spouse so that they would know as well? I've found out my wife has been cheating and found out the info of the person she is cheating with. This guy has a 1 month old baby at home and his wife has no idea. Would it be a good idea to contact her and let her know?

2006-07-05 04:36:47 · 18 answers · asked by izombix 2 in Marriage & Divorce

well, i have got to tell someone to get this off my chest. I am engaged and living with my bf of 3 yrs. we have some relationship problems. he is very jealous and constantly thinks I am cheating. I have never and never will. I want to marry him. he calls me all kinds ugly names and tells me to %$#@ off. he constantly tells me to leave or he is going to leave. all this is said when we argue. then when i tell him how hurtful this is to me he says, "i LET myself feel this way, I do it to myself, its in how I take things." Last night he came home after being out of town a week due to work. I had him 4 nice birthday gifts (his birthday is in 2 weeks but he had such a bad week that I was only thinking of him to make him feel better and thats why i gave them to him, also, he may actually be out of town on his bday and that is another reason why) well, he thinks I cheated and thats why i gave him the gifts. I have did nothing but sit home at home and go to work, also i have 2 sons. pleasehelp

2006-07-05 04:36:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-05 04:36:06 · 6 answers · asked by sexy_thang_in_da_bed15 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i go to a coffee shop every morning and there is this guy who works there that i have talked to once before and i really like him but i don't know how to ask him out or get him to ask me out, is it weird to ask him out consdering i'm just a customer at where he works?

2006-07-05 04:35:54 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do girls, like me, like guys who make us laugh?

2006-07-05 04:35:54 · 29 answers · asked by mnky82 2 in Singles & Dating

If you are, can you share your experience how you make it?

2006-07-05 04:35:48 · 12 answers · asked by Jenny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A caste in costal areas of AP/INDIA

2006-07-05 04:34:20 · 4 answers · asked by konada67 1 in Friends

i have a friend that hooked up with my ex and that is how we became friends.... well now we are best friends.... the thing is she hooked me up with one of her friends we was together for 7 months and decided to just be friends with benefits... the thing is she bitches about everything i do when i am not at her house and i did make a mistake and had sex with another guy and i haven't told him yet but i am planning on it... she bitches that i am ding things with guys i am not and she acts like i have to be up her *** 24/7 and her relationship is horrible with my ex she has a kid by him and that but he hits on her and calls her names and her son hates him.... the thing is she needs to butt out n let me live my own life i don't know what to do anymore she is ruining my life and my friends with benefits???????????? what should i do??????????????

2006-07-05 04:34:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-07-05 04:33:45 · 19 answers · asked by blaaah 2 in Friends

2006-07-05 04:33:42 · 21 answers · asked by ndso19 2 in Singles & Dating

Anything at all. hit me!

2006-07-05 04:33:15 · 3 answers · asked by Erick O 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-05 04:32:36 · 14 answers · asked by pani 1 in Singles & Dating

my broyfriend and i are bothe 18 and want to move out of our parents house..we both are mature and hold good jobs.... we have known eachother for 10 months n have been dating for 5 months. but by the time we acctually move it it will be 12 months that we have been together if we last...i know we will ... what do you all think on the topic and any advise for me thanx.

2006-07-05 04:32:27 · 9 answers · asked by pisces_dreamer06 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i just need some time away from her to explore the possibilties, I have been faithful & so has she ...I'm 47 she is 40, she has 4 kids at home which we must include in almost everything we do, I just miss the single life I guess...she cries everytime I attempt to break up....c'mon help a brother out!!!

2006-07-05 04:31:59 · 43 answers · asked by rahnno 1 in Singles & Dating

ok what do u do to gain your g/f's trust, ive tried everything and the thing is shes been cheated on b4 by some guy and now shes scared no matter what i do and how many times i say i wont shes convinced that all guys are assholes like that and she thinks that one day i might cheat on her

2006-07-05 04:31:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating