i dont know what to think... but i dont think hes cheating or has the intention to b/c we are ALWAYS TOGETHER AND WE HAVE a great relationship and are communication skills are great.... and also he doesnt know that i know....
1.what should i think about him telling her that?
2. should i let him know that i know? i found out b/c she left a comment on his page. but he hasnt checked it yet) its throught myspace?
thanx
2006-07-05 04:38:15 · 14 answers · asked by pisces_dreamer06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
my boyfriend did the same thing! we have been together for 4 years and i found out he had a myspace. it was private. i called a friend that he had commented on, (he gave me his email/password so i could see his page). OMG all these girls were commenting on him (how about lunch on monday, youre so hot, blah blah blah) then those girls pages he had commented on them. youre so hot, dont forget to write.... oh my god! it freaked me out. i never thought he would do something like that. and he claimed to be single. i confronted him about it and it was just an awful experience. to wrap things up, i told him it was either them or me. he never met with them (he said it was a way to get friends since he mostly spends time with me) he blocked them and does not talk to them anymore. you have to give him an ultimatum. i go by the saying, fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me. everyone makes mistakes. and to forgive is divine. it will be hard but you dont want to just end things and wonder what if i would have talked to him about it? good luck and take care. ♥
2006-07-05 04:40:52 · answer #1 · answered by BeAuTiFuL 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be upset and confront him about it, Because if u 2 are together he should have told her the truth and told the girl he was seeing somebody or he had a girlfriend. He probly was trying his hand to hook up with the other girl. You should definitly let him know that u know whats going on and ask him whats up?
2006-07-05 11:45:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not good. Coming from a guys perspective he is saying that to let the person know that there is no attachments and that he would be interested in pursuing her. Get rid of him. Hopefully this "girl" he is telling is actually a dude.
2006-07-05 11:42:53 · answer #3 · answered by bables10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be fun to set up a dummy myspace account and leave some comments on his page to see how he responds.
On the other hand, it would be more mature (but less fun) to just ask him openly.
2006-07-05 11:44:08 · answer #4 · answered by bonshui 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him you told a man on line that you didnt have a boyfriend and see his reactions. then if he starts yelling you tell him what you knowa . maybe his not cheating he just want to talk to a female he never seen who maybe ugly who is probably dating someone herself. i can only give the advice i can make you follow by it love ya!
2006-07-05 11:45:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bye, bye boyfriend! Get ready to leave him. But, before you do, talk to him and ask him if he feels an urge to stray. Ask him what he feels he's missing from your relationship. Listen to him and give him what he needs. After awhile see if he comes back from this. If not...Bye, bye!
2006-07-05 11:42:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him know that you know as a comment on his myspace
2006-07-05 11:41:40 · answer #7 · answered by Library Eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And in another question you asked if you should move in with him. You have got to be kidding me. Dump him!!
2006-07-05 11:44:13 · answer #8 · answered by Fishgutts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get things straight with your boyfriend and tell him how you feel...just dont take it out on the girl though...its not her fault.
2006-07-05 11:42:36 · answer #9 · answered by pr89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be truthful w/ him and tell him. There isn't any good in keeping secrets.
2006-07-05 11:41:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋