We always share very open sex and I have been totally too exhausted to have sex before, so I introduced him to jacking off for me instead of going thru intercourse. This morning we were engaged in intercourse and he stops and whacks off. I am a little disappointed. Is he just tired, or what do you think of that?
2006-07-05 04:41:41 · 20 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ok. I work 12 hour days in a very fast paced job and he works out of the county 12 hours a day 6 days a week. Exhaustion on both sides is here.
2006-07-05 05:00:20 · update #1
I think that he's gotten used to the feeling of j**king off and he probably just couldn't get the feeling that he needed to orgasm while having sex. Its ok.....dont worry bout it, tell him how you feel. Hes just gotten used to the feeling, and you know a guys pe*is has a mind of its own. Its nothing personal about you and him. He probably didn't think anything about it. Its happened to me before with my ex, so I understand the dissapointment. Dont be so upset.......its doesn't mean anything significant.
2006-07-05 04:49:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that does seem odd, i think its totally hot when a guy starts jerking off during 4-play but to think that is an acceptable form of sex is just messed up. Did he at least get u off? Either way I would confront him..good luck.
2006-07-05 11:49:50 · answer #2 · answered by Kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually, when a man masturbates, he grips his penis tighter than a vagina can, and therefore causes more friction making the sensations more intense. Also, he may have run out of time and needed to hurry up and finish. You shouldn't worry either way, he'll finish off inside you when you start talking dirty to him.... Or you might try turning over...
2006-07-05 11:48:01 · answer #3 · answered by Mike M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe since you introduced it...he feels it is something that you are turned on by. In turn he was trying to appeal to you (and not to mention it is enjoyable to him). Tryin talkin to him and see why he sped off into overdrive with himself...maybe he has become confused by the message that was sent to him.
Its great you two are open about sex like that, just communicate with him your concern. You might be surprised as to what he has to say...
2006-07-05 11:57:36 · answer #4 · answered by athletictrainer7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have told him to do it, you should have done it for him. He thinks him doing it turns you on now. You're just going to have to talk to him about it, during the day, not in bed.
2006-07-05 11:45:55 · answer #5 · answered by whatdoiknow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is sure possible to fantasize about doing it with someone else when your SO starts to bore you or doesn't get dolled up appropriately! Women, pay attention!
2006-07-05 11:45:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You start the play,
Try at the same time, when he masturbate, you do the same and enjoy, is fun
2006-07-05 12:43:35 · answer #7 · answered by bigonegrande 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you enjoy watching him and he likes doing it it is ok but if you are both just being lazy then its not ok Sex should be pleasurable not just getting off
2006-07-05 11:45:59 · answer #8 · answered by mrsdamico22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's got jerkoffitus - serious, addicted to the spank of his ****. Need some serious intervention. Don't call me.
2006-07-05 11:47:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think it can make for some pretty exciting sex....
2006-07-05 11:44:14 · answer #10 · answered by ebonieboo68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋