my broyfriend and i are bothe 18 and want to move out of our parents house..we both are mature and hold good jobs.... we have known eachother for 10 months n have been dating for 5 months. but by the time we acctually move it it will be 12 months that we have been together if we last...i know we will ... what do you all think on the topic and any advise for me thanx.
2006-07-05 04:32:27 · 9 answers · asked by pisces_dreamer06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
DONT!!! If you want to keep the relationship good dont do it now. Wait until another 6 months to see if its going to work. Trust me
2006-07-05 04:36:00 · answer #1 · answered by Kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My granda ma used to say: If somebody is nice, tryo to move with him... Meaning that when you move together you can discover things about You and the other person,that you will never imagine!! Simple task s as doing the dishes.. even if you have the machine can become trouble.. When you move together is good to make a real budget.. at your parents house I guess you don't pay for soap,toothpaste, shampoo, cleaning..... which in addition to rent add a lot!. What about whos gonna do you boyfriends laundry??
Life will tell you that there is not such thing as being 100% mature.. and a good salary is always something subjective, because some folks as you know can't lealve with less than 6 figures.
Think also you are young so make sure both of you spent time together, and with friends your age an interest. Don't get into to drap of becoming a "Mature" Housewife.. No be responsible, but don't get overcorcern..
Enjoy life and good luck
2006-07-05 11:57:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go for it. but just be careful because living together changes everything. You are going to see the other side of this guy...and him you. You will lose a certain sense of privacy. Also, the old phrase "the honeymoon is over" will eventually set in. Things will be great at first and eventually the newness will wear off. So just make sure you have an escape plan. I've seen far to many people get drug around like an anchor in a bad relationship because they have no where else to go. Just make sure you have a plan b in case things go sour. But you only live once...so enjoy it. And who knows he may just be the man for you...and everything I said above will go out the window. Also this is a great test drive for marriage...save a possible divorce.
2006-07-05 11:37:58 · answer #3 · answered by lanceh13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might as well give it a shot. You both will see if you're meant for each other, living in such a close environment. But remember something very important. FAMILIARITY BREEDS CONTEMPT, so hang out with your friends, spend time with your family, and also spend some time by yourself. If you don't do any of those things you will get tired of each other.
2006-07-05 11:37:24 · answer #4 · answered by graciefaith1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well l just think marriage is the best idea in your case and if your not old enough for that kind of commitment then maybe your not old enough to move in together.......I dont know what your belief on that is but that's mine thank you for taking the time to read this!!!
2006-07-05 11:37:25 · answer #5 · answered by Annelise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's great that you want to move out however, I recommend finding a female roommate.
2006-07-05 11:36:00 · answer #6 · answered by pamspraises 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now days it is more common for couples to live together first. i think it would save on alot of divorces!! its good to get to know that person, and what better way?!
2006-07-05 11:36:09 · answer #7 · answered by sweetpea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very big step but know what u are getting into b4 u do it
2006-07-05 11:35:49 · answer #8 · answered by townsend0927 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you have to really ask your self "do actlly love this man"
2006-07-05 11:37:34 · answer #9 · answered by john bass 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋