ok what do u do to gain your g/f's trust, ive tried everything and the thing is shes been cheated on b4 by some guy and now shes scared no matter what i do and how many times i say i wont shes convinced that all guys are assholes like that and she thinks that one day i might cheat on her
2006-07-05 04:31:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she doesn't trust you, it's never going to work. It will drive you nuts......she'll accuse you of all kinds of ****. She better learn to trust you or you better move on.
2006-07-05 04:34:19 · answer #1 · answered by Curioso Cat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is the key to a happy relationship. If she can't trust you, you'll never be happy. Tell her it is not fair to you that she is bringing baggage from past relationships to yours. She doesn't know all guys are assholes (unless she has been with all of us, in that case you might want to get rid of her. Ha Ha) Tell her accusing you is only going to make you want to cheat, that way she will have something to be mad about.
2006-07-05 11:43:13 · answer #2 · answered by johnsonjrod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her see that you don't cheat on her. As an aside, that kind of insecure whining can get old real fast. Someone who needs constant reassurance can become an anchor dragging your life down. Think twice about making a long term relationship with her.
2006-07-05 11:38:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just show her that she is yours only yours like going out to eat sitting beside her and keeping your eyes on her the whole time. I was in a cheating relationship and it took me a while to get over it. It does take time. Just make her feel like she is your world and you dont want to be with anyone else.
2006-07-05 11:34:55 · answer #4 · answered by Kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wht the
y u need help for if she don't trust u so wht
she probably likes u more than u think and is afraid to lose u
u cant change the way she thinks that is insecurity abt u
dont worry be happy not every guy get a gal like her
2006-07-05 11:36:23 · answer #5 · answered by ghost13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TIME! i have the same problem. guys have cheated on me so many times. and each time its harder and harder to trust again. it just takes time. do the simple things like: if you say you are going to pick her up at 7pm, do it. if she needs a favor from you (whatever it may be), do it. good luck. â¥
2006-07-05 11:36:07 · answer #6 · answered by BeAuTiFuL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres an old country song she should hear by Hank Williams Sr.. It's called cold cold heart.The song is about your situation.In the course he ask the questions
1) what can i do to free your doubtful mind and melt your cold cold heart?
2)why am I paying now for things I didn't do?
the song has worked for me its worth a try.
2006-07-05 11:44:54 · answer #7 · answered by Desperado 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just listen to your heart if it says stay stay but if you get to annoyed by her not trusting u which will take time then leave but that is not wat she needs she loving and a ton of tlc
2006-07-05 11:39:28 · answer #8 · answered by jenn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋