I have been "dating" this guy for about a month now. We get along great, everything is going really well. He calls everyday, tells me I'm beautiful and sexy, spends every Saturday night with me. All the right things, except he wants to keep his options open.
I sort of started that by telling him we need to go slow and he's the same way. I went on date with another man on Thursday and he was a bit jealous, but told me he has no right to tell me not to go. I told him I would cancel it if he asked me to.
He said that we need to get perspective and make sure if we end up together it's because we want to be and we're sure we're doing the right thing.
He says that you have to let your heart lead you to the relationship, that you can't put the relationship first, it has to develop naturally.
Well, my feelings have developed and I don't think he'll ever want to just be with me, though he says we're working towards it. Am I wasting my time with a player? do I say I want a relationship?
2006-07-03
07:03:05
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Christine S
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