Scenario-U bf & u together 5yrs.U ask him reason for not getting married yet asked if it was another girl he says NO asked him if he was in gangs(as u heard a rumor)he neither says yes or no.Does it mean yes or no & next time u two speak he didnt talk about it.What do u think & would u get married or not to him if he was in gangs though everything else was perfect between u two?
2006-07-03 07:03:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
thats called love if u two can overcome all obstacles be together happily married theres no problem at all gangs or no gangs dont gang members have families wives children?its all in the love.the love u two have for eachother.
2006-07-03 07:13:41 · answer #1 · answered by docfreudianslip 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If he normally answers you with a straight yes or no, as he did with your first question, then I would suspect that his avoiding answering if he is in a gang as a yes.
Personally I would not get married to a gang member regardless of how well everything else was going. There would be too many things to worry about. I have dated a gang member in the past, so don't think I am answering this way out of prejudice.
If he doesn't want to get married, but you do, then you have to move on. Don't waste your life on someone that is not going to give you EVERYTHING that you want and deserve. Almost is not good enough. Good luck.
2006-07-03 14:14:15 · answer #2 · answered by MELISSA B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I definitely would not married to him until all his distraction is resolve and if there is a gang involve that would also makes it even harder for me to consider as my family life would be endangered. I think u both need to communicate on a more personal level as there seem to be no communication in this relationship...
2006-07-03 14:19:55 · answer #3 · answered by symarcia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all he is not being honest with you, and two, if he is in a gang then you need to get out before you really get more than just your heart broke. Good luck and stay safe
2006-07-03 14:12:42 · answer #4 · answered by leonamcmean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like there is waaaaay too much drama in this relationship for you to even consider marriage yet. Marriage is based on love, loyalty, communication, and honesty and it sounds like you only have two of the four. And besides, if you two did get married and have children, would you want to expose your children to that lifestyle firsthand? Get out of the drama and find someone better for yourself.
2006-07-03 14:09:48 · answer #5 · answered by Evelyn's Mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the gang
2006-07-03 14:10:28 · answer #6 · answered by mcalano77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think so. otherwise you should be able to tell without asking him. baby girl, set a time line. otherwise, he'll never get marry with you.
2006-07-03 14:08:21 · answer #7 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋