we had a fight a long time ago dont even know what is was aboutt> should we start talking or just forget it. we are both in our fifties,
2006-07-03 07:12:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
the fact that you are asking this question tells me that some part of you misses your brother. do you think he might reject you if you try to contact him? chances are he's missing you as much as you are missing him. someone has to make the first step. why not you? after 30 years, does it really matter who's fault it was?
2006-07-03 07:17:58 · answer #1 · answered by Mommy Dearest 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start talking!!! If you can't remember why then it wasn't that important!! Make a lunch date and don't bring up the past (like the argument, no one was wrong and no one was right) start fresh and talk to each other like friends, forget your related!! You just may find out that he's not so bad!!! Let us know how it goes!
2006-07-03 07:27:32 · answer #2 · answered by Karen H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start talking. You could drop him a note or email asking what the fight was about. If neither of you knows, then you can begin talking about old times. As you get older, you need all the roots you have.
2006-07-03 07:18:47 · answer #3 · answered by chilixa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blood relations demand sacrifice and respect. After the end of World War 2 all concerned nations negotiated settlement and started friendly relations. You must immediately contact your brother and his children and renew family relationship.
2006-07-03 07:21:36 · answer #4 · answered by snashraf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Extend the olive branch and start talking. Since you do not remember what the disagreement was all about, forget it and move on.
2006-07-03 07:24:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the initiative and call him. Don't miss out on a great relationship with a family member.
2006-07-03 07:20:08 · answer #6 · answered by kat_5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes sure ,, you should start talking to each other ,,, family needs to be for each other ,, you two have the same blood so respect that and be good for each other cause life is very short ....
2006-07-03 07:25:07 · answer #7 · answered by Maria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you like your brother? Do you think he would be an asset to your life? call him up and say hi and see where it goes from there.
2006-07-10 06:47:35 · answer #8 · answered by michael s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg comon now he is ur brother he is your blood u and him have the same blood and u really want to die without talking to your borther
2006-07-03 07:23:50 · answer #9 · answered by moka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow....30 years....well if you don't even remember what it was about you have nothin' to lose to try and extend an "olive branch"...if he doesn't take it...well at least you tryed
2006-07-03 07:18:05 · answer #10 · answered by krnsspott 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋