I'm a shy 13 yrs old girl, what should I do?

Question

I'm areally really shy person. Every time I go somewhere and saw boys hanging out on that place, I always say to myself " i'm doomed, I have to go back home,Oh,oh trouble................" a lot of s2pid things come out of my mouth. What should I do?

Answer 1

shy is the way to go!

we love it!! :)

Answer 2

relax.... no need 2 worry..... U'r shy that's what some guy's like bout a girl, it makes them feel like U like them. I wouldn't worry... think of a place that U feel like confortable. I'd think of B'n @ a family function N the boy U'r talk'n 2 S a cuz. U have all the confedence N the world, N 2 tell U the truth it would B a while 4 U 2 really come out of U'r shell F U don't work on it some how.... I know cuz I used 2 B like that. xpt w/ every 1 not only around girls but every 1!!!! I was soo shy that I didn't speak N class, the teacher didn't know what my voice sounded like. lol. think of a role modle U look up 2 follow his or her's foot steps so that the confedence would rise N U would B a lil' more out go'n.... there's many other options 2 get out go'n; However it's alway's cool 2 stay shy. I know it's not GR8 2 every 1 but it's U'r personality, it'll either pass or it'll stay the same as U grow older. like I alway's say "Hakuna Matata"

Answer 3

i am a 16 year old and very shy n I found wayz 2 talk 2 boyz but there s2pid but they keep me stuttering n they find it funny so i just keep doin it so dont be shy just go n say hey,hi,sup,hows it hangin'? or somethin' don't matter

Answer 4

I think you should gather up a llittle vourage and take baby steps. One say hi to a really hot guy. 2 start a conversation ...its ok if you dont finish it...2 start a friend thats a guy I tell you what I wuz like u now all my friends well alot f my friends are guys!!!!

Answer 5

HAHA same thing with me u jus have 2 get over it sometimes if u laugh it helps like if ur shy cause what if u do something stupid when ever i do that i laugh about it but it will b ok

Answer 6

Associate with other 13 year ols and join a few clubs like the kawanis/girl guides/etc. and other self interest clubs so as to 'grow' an not meditate on 'stuff' that will happen soon enough with-out 'your' selling something 'you' don't want to spend 'your' time 'dwelling' on....do things that interest 'you' and soon enough there will be many 'boys' who will be attracted...guard 'your' heart....don't wear 'on-your'-sleave' ....

Answer 7

Relax. Most boys are the same. If you wanna talk to them, go for it! If they are nice, they will accept you for who you are and not try to change you. Take care, and remember that you are the most important person in the world. No matter what!

Answer 8

I'm 14 and I'm shy too.......... I don't know how to approach guys so I wait till they approach me. Once you get to talking tot hem and stop thinking about your nerves. It's not that hard. Walk with your head held hi and don't think about your nerves. Just go with the flow. It'll get easier as you go along

Answer 9

quit using shy as an excuse, make an effort to talk to one of those boys, once you do, it will give you more strength to do it again. they are just people, no better or no worse than you, you just have a little growing to do. or just go stand around them without saying anything, let them speak to you first. guys always speak to gurls first.

Answer 10

Always tell the true no mater how hard is it, it is OK to be shy, it will pass after you will learn more. Play with kids your age at school you will pass over it.

Answer 11

Wait for another 5 years.