Family & Relationships - 2 July 2006

My b/f and i are at it again. We like any relationship are having are ups and downs. He met this girl on myspace and I can tell he's strating to liek her. And he told me she really really likes him, thats what she told him. Well my bf and i are in a long distnace relatinoship and i recently went to go visit him and we've been apart again for about a month cuz i home now and the new girl that he like lives further away than i do but he wont coem to see me but next month is going to spend a week with her where she lives. I know thats not right. but i asked him if he loves me than why is he going to see her not me and he says he wont do anything cuz he loves me. I find it hard to believe anyways. but the real reason he says he is going is cuz there "friends" and they have more in common together than he and i do. My ? is basically does commonalitly really matter if you love someone no matter what? Please i could really use helpful advice at this time in my relationship. PLEASE!!

2006-07-02 10:12:45 · 2 answers · asked by Xenia J 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-02 10:11:58 · 18 answers · asked by beattryce 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my b/f doesn't like to do alot of things like cleaning and etc. he sits around playing ps2 all day. wants sex alot but wont give oral to me but wants it from me alot. the sex coould be better. he only lasts a maybe 15 mintues tops and thats with foreplay. what should i do. i have talked to him about most of these things except the sex part. any advise or help

2006-07-02 10:11:23 · 10 answers · asked by horses19 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok well 2day after work I was asked by my X b/f (he is the dishasher where I work) to do the silverware...so I started it and then was like I have other things to do..his mom (a cook there) comes in and is like fine go do it I will help him. well I came in with a buss tub and she was like wow 3 more minutes of grief. it pissed me off.thenb she went away i go up to my X (we are really good friends) and I was like maybe u should just stop talkin to me ur mom hates it. then him and his mom were talkin. I start crying and ****. later he was in the back getting ice and i was putting my apren away. he is like whats wrong and I snap at him nothing just dont talk to me ur mom doesnt like it and walk off..(he didnt really hear me the frist time) I dont know what to do now. I love being friends with this guy but his mom doesnt like it. She doesnt like us talkin on the phone so everytime she finds out he gets yelled at..he wont even stand up o his mom and tell her that we are friends.

2006-07-02 10:10:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-07-02 10:09:21 · 7 answers · asked by prongs 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-02 10:08:49 · 15 answers · asked by kyungduckha 2 in Friends

This friendship has been for 5 years 6 months, nothing was making me to suspect such a reaction.
By the way, she has a big house and there is enough space, but I think the space wasn't in her heart.
Would you consider her as a friend after that ?

2006-07-02 10:08:26 · 4 answers · asked by nadira456 3 in Friends

k so where at a dance and it was a slow song. Then one of my good friends came up and asked me to dance and of cource I'm not going to say no be cause thats kindof mean. but then the guy I really like saw me with my friend while we where danceing and the rest of the time he ignored me. what should I do.

2006-07-02 10:07:56 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My girlfriend and I Like to play the question game to better understand each other. We have asked practically every question anyone could think of. So I was just wondering if anyone else might have any questions that they ask people to try to get to know them.

2006-07-02 10:07:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

in the middle of a 1 year sex drought and 2 year relationship drought........do i have problems? or is this normal for a jolly, naive, 27 year old idealist who day dreams alot?

2006-07-02 10:07:44 · 16 answers · asked by yellow_beaver 2 in Singles & Dating

I only have 5 days left until my wedding and I think I want to back out.

I have been racked with doubt and a feeling of uneasiness for the past month. At first I thought it might simply be a case of cold feet that would go away but now I think there maybe other more fundamental issues that haven't been resolved yet.

Mainly which country to live in and when to have children. We both seem to be unwilling to compromise. I'm wondering if these are the reasons I am so upset at night.

My friends & family and her friends & family all have their flight tickets, their bags backed, (some are in the air as I type) Meanwhile the hotels, church, caterers, planners, reception etc. has all been prepared and I really feel a strong sense of responsibility to go through with this wedding.

I feel awful considering calling it off but I’m not sure I can go through with it.

How can I tell if my marriage worries are simply cold feet or an instinctual intuition of something I shouldn't do?

2006-07-02 10:06:17 · 12 answers · asked by Pato 2 in Weddings

creation.?

2006-07-02 10:06:04 · 8 answers · asked by $ MATH THUGZ 4 LYFE $ 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-02 10:05:59 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well the point is that he changed a alot but sometimes he hurts my feelings and im not sure if i love him we got 2 kids plus his daughter and im just 21 i want to be with him because of his daughter her mom lost custody and she suffer alot but still im not ssure what can i do to know if i love him or not and what should i do to jim when he pushes me away and doesnt want me touching him and hes not cheating on me because hes always with me and the kids plus he works im confused i care about him but sometime i think i cant leave him because of the kids and my parents and his mom hes 26 i benn through alot

2006-07-02 10:05:51 · 26 answers · asked by carmen r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

just wondering about diffrent ages email please :)

2006-07-02 10:05:23 · 28 answers · asked by Linsay 3 in Singles & Dating

who should i marry? one of them- all he ever does is eat ham.. he never stops eating,and ONLY eats ham.. and hes mean and dirty.. or....... this guy who is hot, smart, has a great job, kind, nice considerate , and goal orianted?

2006-07-02 10:04:55 · 8 answers · asked by i dont have a pig handy! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my brothers son lifted his sister underwear and felt her butt is this normal innocent curious behavior or something more he is 12 and she is 9 he is good kid who never gets into trouble and makes good grades. i say it is normal behavior at that age since it only happened once my brother is livid and doesnot know what to do

2006-07-02 10:03:52 · 28 answers · asked by mianivi 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-02 10:03:52 · 20 answers · asked by jennypenny 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-02 10:03:43 · 6 answers · asked by big jack 5 in Singles & Dating

are there single girls who are looking for a boyfriend and are over 18 i am 21 and all the girls around me act so young

2006-07-02 10:03:01 · 5 answers · asked by robert 1 in Singles & Dating

I dont know.

Im cute.
I have a good personallity.
Im confident.
Im smart.
Im mature.

The thing is why are guys still just jerks?

I dont know.

I want to know if its something with me.

Sheesh!

:-/

2006-07-02 10:02:34 · 5 answers · asked by Analina 3 in Singles & Dating

he is not from my country, we talked by phone and internet for one year, and its the time now to see each other. i liked him on line, im worry now, will i like him if i saw him infront me talking .

2006-07-02 10:02:01 · 1 answers · asked by sweety 1 in Singles & Dating

I wanted to roleplay asUnderdog and Sweet Polly Purebred. I have a few other questions under my profile that I'm still looking for an answer.

2006-07-02 10:01:41 · 8 answers · asked by Nep 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-02 10:00:49 · 24 answers · asked by akk345 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm very attracted to irish guys...I had 2 irish bf's ,but the relationship doesn't last because
I hate the fact that they drink too much!!
tired of babysitting drunks...should I put Irish guys on my no-no list?

2006-07-02 10:00:41 · 17 answers · asked by princessearching 2 in Singles & Dating

She really is! I HATE HER! I can't take her! She's MAKING me go to this lil kid camp and when I say 'You didnt even ask me!' she says 'You're 13! YOU HAVE NO SAY IN ANYTHING! Im the boss!' She honestly thinks thats how she should parent me. I'm 13 and I have the curfew of a 6 year old. I was going to be in a play now I CANT CUZ I HAVE 3 WEEKS OF CAMP! HELP ME PLZ! I need to know how to tell her shes WAY OVER-STEPPING THE LINE! I tell my friends and they're like 'SHE HAS NO RIGHT TO PLAN UR SUMMER VACA!' I NEED TO KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO MY MOM WHO IS BECOMING HITLER!

2006-07-02 10:00:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I recieved 12 replies to a question. Only two answer's were smart ***, supposed "take down" replies...both these individuals did not leave addreses to reply to them: Lick_your_honey and Thomas B...Predictably enough, it was both of them who left the type of personal reply that they would never say to a persons face

2006-07-02 09:59:18 · 11 answers · asked by sault 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-02 09:59:10 · 6 answers · asked by greg w 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-02 09:58:56 · 37 answers · asked by horses19 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of two week's is moving too fast. I have already gotten the i love you, and tomorrow it is agreed that we will have our first kiss... but im not sure i want to, i never have. Im so confused about the hole situation, could someone please help me! Oh and im 14 turning 15

2006-07-02 09:58:18 · 8 answers · asked by jasminerjennings 1 in Singles & Dating