ok well 2day after work I was asked by my X b/f (he is the dishasher where I work) to do the silverware...so I started it and then was like I have other things to do..his mom (a cook there) comes in and is like fine go do it I will help him. well I came in with a buss tub and she was like wow 3 more minutes of grief. it pissed me off.thenb she went away i go up to my X (we are really good friends) and I was like maybe u should just stop talkin to me ur mom hates it. then him and his mom were talkin. I start crying and ****. later he was in the back getting ice and i was putting my apren away. he is like whats wrong and I snap at him nothing just dont talk to me ur mom doesnt like it and walk off..(he didnt really hear me the frist time) I dont know what to do now. I love being friends with this guy but his mom doesnt like it. She doesnt like us talkin on the phone so everytime she finds out he gets yelled at..he wont even stand up o his mom and tell her that we are friends.
2006-07-02 10:10:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she bad mouths me infront of him and to him about me..I am sick of it!
2006-07-02 10:16:40 · update #1
It's, like, time to find a new job and, like, find a new boyfriend and maybe, like, time to learn to spell.
Sorry for the sarcasm but it's very hard to read with all the misspellings and the constant use of "like".
Advice in first sentence is good advice. Life is too short and I assume you're young. Go find find someone who appreciates you.
2006-07-15 08:35:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say you should find a different place to work, because that doesn't seem to help at all. If he doesn't stand up to her and tell her that his friendship with you means a lot to him, that's not fair. It seems like you take a lot of flack from her and he never tells her to leave you alone and let you guys be. You deserve better than to be treated like that, where he has to apologize about being your friend and can't stand up for himself. You really deserve someone better than that, and you can find someone. Try to tell him how much it hurts you when she says mean things to you, and that if he doesn't stand up to her, you will have to bail out of the friendship. If you really mean so much to him (as it sounds like you do), he should be a man and step up to the plate.
Good luck, hon.
2006-07-02 17:17:09 · answer #2 · answered by MistysFrosted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like the mom has some issues, she's the adult remember, and sayin snyde remarks like that is not productive at all... tell her off lol
by the way how did u get so much room for your question?
2006-07-02 17:16:09 · answer #3 · answered by rian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you really a trapper? If he does not have the courage to stand up to his mom. He is spineless. tell him to grow a pair. Tell him you can't take the confusion and hatred.
2006-07-02 17:15:54 · answer #4 · answered by Texas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to find another job now!!!!
Time to stop having friendship with him now!!!!
TIme to get away from his mother now!!!!
2006-07-14 01:27:36 · answer #5 · answered by reme_1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that he isn't leaving you in a very fair position and if he doesn't talk to his mom and tell her to cool it then you don't know if you can continue to be his friend...jus tbe honest...if your friendship means as much to him as it does to you then he will talk to her.
2006-07-16 12:56:27 · answer #6 · answered by me_oh_my 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow U r young arent u......!! I think you need to talk it over with your Mom or your girlfriends.. And ..... Do spell check! :P (apron) -J
2006-07-02 17:15:49 · answer #7 · answered by Mr Nice Guyyy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not follow her mom,but be careful that it wont hurt her.try to convince her mom as much as u can,time will resolve this itself.so my friend,don't be hopeless.
2006-07-16 14:47:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FORGET HIM.... if he won't stand up for u even from his mom than he ain't a good friend!!! TRUST ME!!
2006-07-15 13:05:37 · answer #9 · answered by murillo3193@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hear Hear pinksgirlfirend. Hear Hear
2006-07-02 17:48:57 · answer #10 · answered by Kemo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋