My boyfriend of two week's is moving too fast. I have already gotten the i love you, and tomorrow it is agreed that we will have our first kiss... but im not sure i want to, i never have. Im so confused about the hole situation, could someone please help me! Oh and im 14 turning 15
2006-07-02 09:58:18 · 8 answers · asked by jasminerjennings 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
um i had that problem with a couple of relationships. just tell him u want to slow things down. a first kiss shouldnt be something u plan it should just happen u know like when ur on a date or sumthing he just leans over and kisses u its not something that he goes im going to kiss you on july the 4 at 3:00 pm or sumthing just tell him that u want to slow down if he dosent like it to bad
2006-07-02 10:03:47 · answer #1 · answered by mountianbiker_dude 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are not sure then you shouldn't do it. You're first kiss is very important. You shouldn't plan it either. It takes all the fun out of it. My first kiss was like this
We were friends at first, and we laughed a lot together, then we started hanging out more. he asked me to go out with him. When I finally said yes he said "I've been waiting for this for a long time", and then he kissed me. Very good first kiss. It was funny at first though because he caught me off guard.
2006-07-02 17:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by sweetypie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax! Don't be afraid, I'm 16 and I just got my 1st kiss. Just go with the flow it's a natural thing, u can't mess up. And don't plan a certain time 2 kiss just wait till it just happens.
2006-07-02 17:05:59 · answer #3 · answered by Dan T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whenever u meet him next talk 2 him. tell him u want ur relationship 2 move a little slower. let him know that u arent ready 2 kiss him. if he gets angry and gets pissed @ u dump him. sum1 who really loves u will respect your boundaries. and if ur still with him later on and he crosses your boundaries, stop and tell him. if he keeps going leave him. trust me it works. i talked with my guy about what i wasnt ready 4 and when he did cross my boundaries i told him 2 stop and he did. good luck
2006-07-02 18:06:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him your not ready and to slow it down because your starting to feel uncomferable. I'm 15 and i havent had my first kiss yet either
2006-07-02 17:02:27 · answer #5 · answered by Thai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should take the chance, GOOD LUCK
But if you don t want, you should just tell him.
2006-07-02 17:02:56 · answer #6 · answered by let the speakers blow your mind 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well take thee chance good luck
2006-07-02 17:00:52 · answer #7 · answered by Linsay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
preserve your self. you are a precious human
2006-07-02 17:02:55 · answer #8 · answered by zxcpoi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋