my b/f doesn't like to do alot of things like cleaning and etc. he sits around playing ps2 all day. wants sex alot but wont give oral to me but wants it from me alot. the sex coould be better. he only lasts a maybe 15 mintues tops and thats with foreplay. what should i do. i have talked to him about most of these things except the sex part. any advise or help
2006-07-02 10:11:23 · 10 answers · asked by horses19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He is so self-centered. Dump him and find some other guy
2006-07-04 06:21:11 · answer #1 · answered by knitting guy 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well,if he only lasts only 15 minutes,plays ps2 all day long,never cleans up,or anything else,why be with him?Its not like he's going to anything for a long time from what you wrote.
2006-07-02 17:19:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can try new things like going out and going places that doenst have any gaming systems like the park or the movies or just out to eat then you could try taking long walks after one of those activities talk and try to understand each other and ask questions if that stuff doesn't help read glamor and seventeen magazines and read the stories about peoples sex life and the responses they get by the professionals
2006-07-02 17:22:41 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. CrAck CaNDy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are going to find the words to talk to him about everything that is bothering you and have suggestions to correct them....ie.
cleaning to be done jointly before playing with ps2, oral sex, if he wants you to perform on him, he has to be willing to do you also, if he says he doesn't know how, they are book, videos on this matter. If you are not happy everyday will not get better. You deserve to be happy everyday.
2006-07-02 17:17:37 · answer #4 · answered by beaderlovinglife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes get rid of his lazy ***.
or try and say one B/J per household chore he complets to your satisfaction.
some guys are like dogs they require training.
as for the rest of your sex life, if you don't talk to him how is he ever going to get better? you could try buying him a sex manual he may be offended but tell him he either does his chores and gets better in bed and returns the pleasure of oral on you that he may be losing you forever.
any moms out there get your kids involved in helping with household chores from around 4.5 to 5yrs of age and try to keep them away from computer games and TV between age 5 and 13
MOMS try to perform tough love on your sons by forcing them to prepare family meals as they grow up and also teach them how to do laundry.
this should help avoid more men growing into slobs like this guy sound to be.
as for you guys out there that are like this guy, WAKE up playing computer games all day and expecting your wife or girl friend to do all the houshold chores and then expect them to be happy to perform in the bedroom (if you follow) is doomed to failure. ITs 2006 not 1906. guys need to do at least 50% off the houshold chores even if they do have to go out to paid work. if nothing else than to impress your gf. and why the hell should your GF or wife be expected to do all the chores?
think about it guys.
admitedly as i said i'm 33 almost and still single. but your wife or gf is just that a friend first not your damn slave.
if you just want sex go to a hooker.
2006-07-02 17:27:53 · answer #5 · answered by thebestnamesarealreadytaken0909 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, run as fast as you can if you want more than that in the bedroom because if you are dating and he is only in it for him, it will not get better, just worse!
2006-07-02 17:38:31 · answer #6 · answered by Tina B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my man would rather play socom online instead of do dishes etc... i know the feeling... get a girlfriend on the side and leave him be.....lol
2006-07-02 17:16:40 · answer #7 · answered by pinksgirlfriend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him something has to change and cut him off for a few days he'll learn quick he has to work for his reward
2006-07-02 17:17:58 · answer #8 · answered by mountianbiker_dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, he is one of those worthless guy that will let you spend your whole life supporting him.
2006-07-02 17:15:06 · answer #9 · answered by kaylee k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's so selfish and self centred..dump him..you are worth more.
2006-07-02 17:21:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋