Okay, here goes: My wife thinks I'm someone I'm not. She thinks that my interests are perverted. I like TV, movies, magazines (not porn stuff), music, working out and sports. She thinks this because according to her, all these things have "dirty women" in them. To her, dirty women is anyone who wears a spaghetti strap shirt or shows even a little bit of skin, anyone who wears clothing that is even a little tight or wears shorts or skirts, or anyone who wears swimsuits (because swimsuits to her are "dirty" because they show as much as underwear). She gets angry if I even see another "dirty" woman even for a second! I don't check out other women (I respect our marriage) but to my wife, just seeing or even noticing another woman is wrong. I can't even watch TV without getting accused of being a pervert. I tell her that her view of others and of society are not normal but she won't listen. Therapists haven't helped either. Any suggestions? Oh yeah, Disney and cheerleaders are gross also!
2006-07-01
09:24:33
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