well say this guy ask you for your number and then you see him with his ex on random occasions....you havent given him a chance yet but would you after noticing all this?
2006-07-01 09:31:42 · 14 answers · asked by esha p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you dig this guy, tell him straight out that you'd consider giving him a chance when he gets rid of his ex. It's all about respect. You dont ever want to get involved with someone who is still attached to an ex, that'd be pathetic. Tell him that if you were ever to get involved in a relationship with him, you will not have any ex-boyfriends as friends and would not like his ex-girlfriends in the picture either. It's as simple as that. Honestly, I dont think he really cares for you or he would've avoided being seen with his girlfriend, I think you need to move on. Good luck. For the rest of the readers: Guys, if you ever agree to a relationshiop with a chick who keeps her ex as a friend, you are a total L O O S S E R!!!
2006-07-01 09:40:27 · answer #1 · answered by E. T. Gets it 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would probably be more worried about the situation if I didn't have personal experience with one that was similar. I am actually very good friends with my ex, and it is just that - friends. It was really hard for my new boyfriend to get used to that at the beginning, but he trusts me and agrees with me in that I shouldn't feel like I have to give up a good friend, just because we were involved romantically at one point. Maybe you should just ask him about it, it could be something similar.
2006-07-01 16:37:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...he could be Friends with his Ex. Just because they are not a couple does not say that they can't be Friends. It's even more likely if there are kids involved.
So, you can give him the benefit of the doubt, or just dump him....depends on how crazy you are...
2006-07-01 16:35:06 · answer #3 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex was an usher at my wedding. Is he over me? Probably not. Does he have a chance with me? Absolutley nt!
2006-07-01 16:36:18 · answer #4 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm friends with a few ex's of mine and my wife is fine about it.she is freinds with hers. its all down to communication between the two of you
2006-07-01 16:35:39 · answer #5 · answered by Ivan R Don 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope don't bother, it will just be trouble, once people have had sex there is always that something there and the possiblity exists it will happen again if the situation is right.
2006-07-01 16:34:39 · answer #6 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be too awkward. and if they're still handing out then the still have feelings for each other. you'll just have problems down the line. i wouldn't
2006-07-01 16:35:36 · answer #7 · answered by stephensjosh@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would belive him. And if you find out any different you dump him and tell his "ex" hes cheating on her.
2006-07-01 16:35:06 · answer #8 · answered by ¡Free Love! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is everything so trust him till you have hard proof not to trust him
2006-07-01 16:34:53 · answer #9 · answered by Super 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not over her, they might not be doing anything with each other, but he is trying
2006-07-01 16:35:44 · answer #10 · answered by tburke_25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋