I did some down and dirty stuff with this guy i like and its because he said he liked me but when it gets brought up around his friends he says its not true and he doesnt like me and he gets all mad! I dont want to hate him but i dont want to preasure him ethier. i am tierd of being a toy for him! What should i do or how should i say it??
2006-07-01 09:20:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Its the same guy in the other question i have
2006-07-01 09:23:30 · update #1
But i really like him i cant help it
2006-07-01 09:31:35 · update #2
Do you really want to be with a guy that will not admit to liking you?Seems to me he's ashamed of his feelings if he has any!i would cut all ties and find someone who is proud to say they are with you and that treats you with respect
2006-07-01 09:29:29 · answer #1 · answered by okayalder62 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just whenever he goes to make the moves on you like you said that he did last time, just push him away/ or move away from him and tell him that you aren't anyone's toy and you are wanting a serouse relationship, not someone who is going to deny everything that happens between you and him. Also if he says that he likes you, just remember what happend last time when he said that.Hope my advice helps Good Luck !!!
2006-07-01 09:29:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the loser. Start with: If you have to asks if it's a "friends with benefits" thing, it is. Second, the only way to be sure it's not all about sex is to save it for the wedding night.
2006-07-01 09:26:39 · answer #3 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me your friend looks at yourself more then just a friend, but ( SILF ) something I like to ****. When it comes down to it. when a guy tells a girl to do something and they really like them. They will do anything to make their day. Sounds to me he doesnt have any respect for you and I dont think you have any repsect for yourself. and thats not right. Girl I know you better then that. your a smart beautiful girl. and has a lot of things going for you. You dont need to give yourself away to a guy just becuase he says he likes you. thats like a pick up line to them. thats their way of saying. " Your hot. Lets have SEX! "
next time he asked you to do something like that. have more respcet for yourself. Say. " You know what. it was fun. but Im just not going to be your little friends with benifets. I have more respect for my self then that." sorry. and just walk away.
Its better to lose a friend like that. Then be sorry for what you did with him
be smart about it.
Good Luck.
2006-07-01 09:27:54 · answer #4 · answered by allie laught alot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Precious, I am sorry to have to tell you this, but you aren't even a friend to this guy. He is using you as a sperm dump and couldn't care less about you. Salvage what you can of your reputation and talk bad about him to the other girls.
2006-07-01 09:32:26 · answer #5 · answered by gwydiontinker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, come on! Get away from him and change your behavior. You need to think more highly of yourself. Don;'t let people use you! You are a very valuable person. You need to know that.
2006-07-01 09:27:28 · answer #6 · answered by pstlpakr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run and run faster. This kind of guy is immature and wants the benefits. He doesn't care about you at all. Save your dignity and leave this warped sucker.
2006-07-01 09:23:21 · answer #7 · answered by mollymia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you talking anout it in the first place, or u could try avoid being with him when there are a lot of people who might bring up the events.
2006-07-01 09:24:25 · answer #8 · answered by lynexxe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well obvisously he is just using u..slap him and find ur self a boyfriend someone who loves you and doesnt just use u..then go have fun with ur bf..and if u did find a bf i dont think he would blow u off in front of his friends
2006-07-01 09:45:55 · answer #9 · answered by adh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he don't want to admit to his friends that you are his girl, then it sounds to me like he don't care for you. I'd tell him to find him another play thing that he is proud of.
2006-07-01 09:24:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋