Family & Relationships - 1 July 2006

What is the most moving description you know of love? How about I start with this one (Captain Correlli's Mandolin):
"Love is temporary madness; it erupts like volcanos, then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots are so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because that is what love is. Love is not breathlessness. It is not excitement. It is not the promulgation of eternal passion. That is just being in love, which any fool can do. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both art and a fortunate accident. Those that truly love have roots that grow toward each other underground, and when all the pretty blossoms have fallen from their branches, they find that they are one tree, not two." Beautiful!

2006-07-01 10:02:47 · 9 answers · asked by butterfly_grrl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

the lazy ho never cooks...or cleans!

2006-07-01 10:02:20 · 18 answers · asked by I'm Sofa King Stupid 1 in Singles & Dating

He is going to be 18 in July and is insistant that he moves to Idaho with his girlfriend. We have had hours of talking and trying to explain how things are in the real world. For goodness sake he cant even drive yet (he's scared). He' just not ready! He has no job. Why can't I get through to him?

2006-07-01 10:01:08 · 8 answers · asked by ciw71 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

hes really nice sweet and polite, but every couple of days hes leaving.and hes not even in the same town as me but hes only a short bus ride away

2006-07-01 10:00:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Her and her BF got jumped at the bowling alley cuz a guy said something about her butt and her boyfriend stood up for her. They went to the hospital. They are both fine. But I am worried about her emotionally. We don't talk that much anymore but I called her to see if she was all right. She said she was fine but, she is so emotional i just hope she can forget about it and move on.

2006-07-01 10:00:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

know how. I mean when she's nude do I just spread her legs?

2006-07-01 09:59:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-01 09:58:51 · 28 answers · asked by Mizz P!nk 2 in Singles & Dating

Is a second date the right time to pay a compliment to a woman? Say she has beautiful blue eyes and a great smile. What is the right thing to say? When/how should one insert these comments into regular conversation? (she's 23)

2006-07-01 09:58:50 · 19 answers · asked by Randy0606 1 in Singles & Dating

im blonde hair blue eyed all my bff's say im pretty and they're not just being nice i know, they're brutally honest!But if this is true why cant i get a boyfriend??!!

2006-07-01 09:56:05 · 28 answers · asked by foxy_alica 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-01 09:56:01 · 19 answers · asked by Bimbilein 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-01 09:55:23 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend went go with my bestfriend,and my bestfriend went go with the guy i like so anyways my boyfriend said that he really likes me and that i help him forget my bestfriend because he really liked her and now he saids that he likes me more than he loved her what should i do????????????????????????????????????i do like him but i don't know as a friend or a boyfriend

2006-07-01 09:52:31 · 19 answers · asked by jekamexican 1 in Singles & Dating

I am enrolled in a graduate class. During class we sit and have group discussions in a circular fashion. There is a girl in my class that I find really hot. She sits across from me in class. I have noticed that when this girl sits, she has her feet crossed by the ankles and points her feet in my direction, even if she sits at different places in the room during different class times.

I want to know if this can be some sort of subconscious body language sign that the girl is attracted to me. I really like this girl and I'd like to make a move and ask her out. But, I’m pretty shy and afraid that she may not be interested.

2006-07-01 09:52:19 · 15 answers · asked by krazymack 2 in Singles & Dating

guys if you got a girl pregnant at the age of 14 would you stay around or get scared and leave???
---just wonderin

2006-07-01 09:51:55 · 20 answers · asked by Dimond eyes 3 in Singles & Dating

There is a girl at my school who isn't well liked at all. She's had heart trouble all her life and is not as mentally mature as others her age. She's extrememly annoying and thinks that becomes i'm nice to her (it's out of pity) i'm her best friend. Now she won't stop calling me to come hang out! How can i tell her that I'm sick of her without hurting her feelings?

2006-07-01 09:51:53 · 3 answers · asked by NASCAR_girl 2 in Friends

dating a guy for about going on 4 months everything was great well i kept pressuring him to say i love u. well the other day i asked him about it and he told me if i dont stop then i will loose him. ever since that day things of change even his attitude towards me. i feel like it is my fault and i cry all the time about it. he also asked me if i am looking for a long term relationship and said i never had one he said i have had many. i think he is very afraid of commitment. i want to be with him. how can i be with him without even making him feel incomfrontable? and how do i know he wants to be with me i have not seen him in over a week i think he is mad at me for using those word can it be possibe? please help!!!!

2006-07-01 09:51:03 · 4 answers · asked by sexy_catwoman23 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-01 09:50:56 · 10 answers · asked by Questionmark 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-01 09:50:53 · 44 answers · asked by MOMOFIAN 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I ask because i have made myself promise when i was 12 that my word was my bond & i have become incapable of lying. Not just to you ladies, but to every one. even the highway patrol officer last friday. (by the way, he wrote me a warning because i was so honest with him). the only time i allow for a tad of fudging is when the truth could hurt someones feelings. re: "how do you like my new outfit, franky?" " well aunt rose, not many women can wear purple and kelly green stripes like you can." Actually, if she really looked like c**p i'd find some easy way of telling her. i'm know for being honest, and it often doesn't sit well with the ladies i date. if it's not clicking, i have got to say so. but i really getting tired of tear & ladies "willing to change for me". when i'm dating & seen talking to another lady, my girls don't worry because i don't cheat. Period. but when it's over, it's over & i say so. Am i wrong? Thanks... Franky the J.

2006-07-01 09:49:00 · 4 answers · asked by franky_the_j 1 in Singles & Dating

In other words, he still emails her, she emails him and she has called his house before. I think he needs to draw the line. He says they are just friends and still keep in touch. This still doesn't sit well with me. We have already talked about this and argue over and over again. I don't think hes telling me everything. He also has many email addresses which I am suspicous about.

2006-07-01 09:48:48 · 13 answers · asked by heart 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm not single, I have an attractive girlfriend who i love very much, I'm just curious.

2006-07-01 09:48:10 · 4 answers · asked by Doc 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-01 09:47:47 · 21 answers · asked by marladav123 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My sister asked me not to hand the phone to her if she is asleep, she had her eyes open, I told her WHATEVER!

2006-07-01 09:46:50 · 17 answers · asked by Out $1000 3 in Family

2006-07-01 09:46:47 · 4 answers · asked by tamjasnaieli 1 in Singles & Dating

I like him, and I think he likes me. We almost were going out but it was the last 3 days of school, and should i ask him out when school starts again? Do you think he will say yes! I know he was going to ask me out, he was showing it, hugging me, talking much more to me than he usually would, then on the last day of school, he hugged me for a long time and he told me he was going to miss me so much! Could it be?

2006-07-01 09:45:51 · 24 answers · asked by Denise T 1 in Singles & Dating

As a child I was adopted. I know my fathers name, address and phone number. The question is, (I am now 37) should I have the guts to call him? I would really like to get to know him. I do live on the other side of the earth though...

2006-07-01 09:44:21 · 10 answers · asked by Bimbilein 2 in Family

2006-07-01 09:43:04 · 16 answers · asked by Shaun K 1 in Family

I can't afford to pay for a divorce and my husband won't keep a job long enough. He doesn't want to pay child support. He's living with another woman and she doesn't know we are not divorced. I told him that I would tell her, but he still refuses to cooperate. The state has a summons to set child support, but he keeps running from that, too. What should I do?

2006-07-01 09:42:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I can't tell if my husband is telling me lies, or if he's telling me the truth about still loving me and not seeing other women, or wishing to see other women........ How do I tell?

2006-07-01 09:41:47 · 25 answers · asked by sorraia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It's very embarassing.

2006-07-01 09:41:22 · 3 answers · asked by I'm Sofa King Stupid 1 in Friends