2006-07-01 09:47:47 · 21 answers · asked by marladav123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you are just looking to talk to people around the country, ok....but for hanky panky NO.
It would be similar to cheating!!!!
2006-07-01 09:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by Love2teach 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is ok to chat online if you are married. Plenty of them do it. But why the need to keep it from your spouse? Are you doing something you are not suppose to do?
If it is completely innocent you would have no problem letting your spouse know what you are doing.
2006-07-01 16:52:47 · answer #2 · answered by butterflykisses427 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are not talking about things that you shouldn't be.
My hubby told me he was just chatting on winmx but i later found a deleted e mail with his registration details for a sex on the net site. It was not the only one either. I managed to find the details and when i read what he had been saying to these women i was so hurt. We very nearly came to an end over what had been written but I am trying to sort things out. At the end of the day he lied a lot and i thought he wasn't capable of that.
Please go ahead and chat but please don't do anything you think your spouse would not approve of i know first hand how much it would hurt them if they found out.
2006-07-01 16:57:07 · answer #3 · answered by claire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope! Hiding things from your spouse is only going to lead to trouble later on. If you are hiding talking to people from your spouse obviously you are having an inappropriate relationship with these people you are chatting with.
2006-07-01 16:51:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!, nothing okay if you partner doesn't know. knowing is the truth there are no exceptions with woman either you are all in or all out. only woman have double standards in relationships. they have male friends, collegues, etc. but they are simply "friends" to women they don't "look" at him like that. whatever that means but to keep problems from arising it's best to be honest and delete the little things that could become big problems later. if you're in a relationship there's no reason for an outsider, friend whatever the title it will not work if you call yourself being monogomous
2006-07-01 16:55:49 · answer #5 · answered by nomanifear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say that is being pretty sneaky. If it's to someone of the same sex, It isn't a problem, but to the opposite sex, that is kinda of pushing it! Just let your spouse know! Unless you are flirting, then I'm guessing you aren't happy in your current relationship.
2006-07-01 16:52:56 · answer #6 · answered by Huliganjetta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you are having chat that is inappropriate if you're married or you would have told him and you wouldn't have asked this question. This is a guilty question. I would say for you, if I'm right so far, it's not okay.
2006-07-01 16:56:50 · answer #7 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r seeking some satisfaction from outside ur relationship ... i think ur relationship needs some help ... from whom.. urself? ... marraige is commitment ... ok!!.. so whats the harm? well, the question is not whats the harm? .. the question is what are the topics for chat sessions? ... what pupose does it solve? .. cant speak to ur spouse, well ... ur relationship is then over, u r just hanging on!!... think over, before u relaize that ur boat is drowning...!!
2006-07-01 17:17:28 · answer #8 · answered by TOTO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you aren't talking to them about things you shouldn't or cybering then its fine. And it shouldn't be anything that you are keeping from him. If you feel the things that you are chatting about should be hidden from him then no its probably not okay.
2006-07-01 16:52:38 · answer #9 · answered by Here it's December everyday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? I am right now...my husband is so wrapped up in his trip right now, so whatever. Its not like I'm going to have internet sex or whatever....its just talking. I say as long as you aren't finding sexual release from it then there is nothing wrong with it...
2006-07-01 16:50:44 · answer #10 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋