In other words, he still emails her, she emails him and she has called his house before. I think he needs to draw the line. He says they are just friends and still keep in touch. This still doesn't sit well with me. We have already talked about this and argue over and over again. I don't think hes telling me everything. He also has many email addresses which I am suspicous about.
2006-07-01 09:48:48 · 13 answers · asked by heart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, my best advice would be to listen to your gut feeling. Sit down and tell him just how much it is bothering you and the fact that it is getting in the middle of your relationship with him should be enough to make him calm the "friendship" down alittle. Yeah, they may be friends but it shouldnt be becoming an arguement. Ask him how he would feel if you had a friendship with an ex husband....if after the talk things dont change for the better, and if your gut feeling is he is hiding stuff from you..then you need to take care of yourself and listen to your gut...chances are your right.
2006-07-01 09:58:52 · answer #1 · answered by LovableLibra84 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From an ex-wife's point a view, my ex's fiancee is like you. And it has really made for bad blood with her and I, and also taking a toll on my two little boys. You have to remember, the are ex's for a reason. Tell him how you feel, and then drop it. See if things start going bad or for the better in a month, and then reassess the situation. You could just have premature fears that will wreck the relationship.
2006-07-01 10:00:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to relax and be more trusting. I'm still very good friends with my ex wife. We still e-mail each other and talk on the phone a few times a month and my girlfriend is totally fine with it. She realizes that my ex wife and I have shared a lot together and there's nothing wrong with two adults being friends.
Don't be jealous. Jealousy is unattractive. You don't want to push your boyfriend away because of a jealousy streak. It's time to be the bigger person and let him talk to whoever he wants to.
At least it's his ex wife and not some hottie he met at work! Look on the bright side! =)
2006-07-01 09:53:05 · answer #3 · answered by Kenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell my boyfriend to either be with me and only me or else go back to his wife
which is maybe what he wants let him know how you feel about it all and make him
talk about it you may get the answer that you want. Is there know way of getting those
email addresses and find things out for your self as well you could then email those
girls pretending you are him .If he has children with his wife he should only contact
her on behalf of them.call up his wife and ask her whats going on between her and
your boy friend .Tell her that theirs a problem that you want resolved .I personaly
would not put up with that ,one of us has to go whether its her or me.
2006-07-01 10:09:45 · answer #4 · answered by onepepperbeckman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is still playing around with her. By the way WHY IS SHE STILL HIS WIFE. He doesn't respect u? you should take a stand in this horrible situation.
2006-07-01 09:56:50 · answer #5 · answered by finey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you think there is osmething going then theres definitly a problem, but if you feel like she is only doing it ofr the kids then thats another thing.i think you should ask him whats going on and find out if he still wants her, to me it sounds like he cant live without her and still has feelings for her. not good for you. good luck.
2006-07-01 10:00:36 · answer #6 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, there's no trust in the relationship, so you might as well kiss it good bye right now and for good reason. You deserve better.
2006-07-01 09:52:42 · answer #7 · answered by Healthnut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should email your ex boyfriend and see how he acts. That'll make him understand where you are coming from.
2006-07-01 09:52:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this is doomed to fail, you don't trust him so what does it matter? I'd move on cuz it sounds like he's not giving up his ex anytime soon.
2006-07-01 09:53:57 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt b happy with this either, my ms ex was fonin him it wound me up so much, we argued constantly but eventually he changed his number and its never happened again.
tell him how he would feel if it were ur ex foning u all the time. he wud not b comfortable with it
2006-07-01 09:52:59 · answer #10 · answered by Mizz P!nk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋