I am enrolled in a graduate class. During class we sit and have group discussions in a circular fashion. There is a girl in my class that I find really hot. She sits across from me in class. I have noticed that when this girl sits, she has her feet crossed by the ankles and points her feet in my direction, even if she sits at different places in the room during different class times.
I want to know if this can be some sort of subconscious body language sign that the girl is attracted to me. I really like this girl and I'd like to make a move and ask her out. But, I’m pretty shy and afraid that she may not be interested.
2006-07-01 09:52:19 · 15 answers · asked by krazymack 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This girl is definitely attracted to you. People like you and her are very shy so you show how you like somebody very subtly. Some people may not even notice. This girl is paying very close attention to you too so why not let her know how you feel. Point your feet back at her...
2006-07-01 09:56:16 · answer #1 · answered by Vanny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether or not that's a signal, I think it's not as important as what are you going to do... In my opinion, you should ask her out... Actually, this is a must... At least, start talking to her (because I have the impression you didn't do that, aside from the class time issues) -- a simple "Hey, hello ! How are you?... I noticed you in my class... You have a great smile !..." it's not so difficult... What do you think she'll do?!? Slap you?!? Then (not necessarily then, it could be the next day) ask her for a cup of coffee of tea... talk to her, make her know you... maybe this would be the start of a flaming love story, or at least the beginning of a beautiful friendship... In the worst case scenario, you may find out that she isn't worth it... But the important thing is to act, otherwise you'll always ask yourself what would have been like, if you had the courage... Trust me on that one, and be five minutes smarter than me... Good luck to you !
2006-07-01 10:06:23 · answer #2 · answered by Restless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, girls do the strangest things to get a guys attention. See, that "body language" keeps you guessing on if she is interested or not - so you can act on it or not. She has nothing to loose because you never really know what she is doing. Kudos to you, though. I can't believe you noticed this! I can't get my own boyfriend to notice when I am flirting for something. Back to the situation. She is interested in you (if your observations are valid) and you should make a move. She is sending you signals that you picked up on - go for it. But DO NOT mention how you noticed her feet, she will probably think it worked anyway - but the mentioning of it will make you look like a wacko!
Go ahead and do your thing!
2006-07-01 09:58:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Females pay a lot of attention to grooming. Of course not everyone has the same taste - if you dress Goth you'll only appeal to other Goths - and you should dress in accord with how you see yourself. I could never wear something that made me feel like a banker. The only time I wear a suit is to a wake or a wedding. But I keep my casual working class clothing clean and ironed. Dirty fingernails are a big turn off. Women are also more sensitive to odors than men are, but this gets very personal, as some women like the sweat of one particular guy but not of another, and menstrual cycles also affect he sense of smell. Just try to smell clean and fresh. Looking rich also helps. Aside from grooming, be witty, chatty and inquisitive - find out what the particular female likes to talk about, and then talk about that.
2016-03-27 00:25:46 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be,But you need more evidence to build on regarding this matter cause it just be the way she sits.Try to notice something else like does she smile at you or stare,or even notice you when you answer really hard questions in class.
Maybe you could help her with here homework ,or just be a good friend that she can confied in especially if she is talking to someone and he an't about **** .You could come to her resuce.
2006-07-01 10:01:46 · answer #5 · answered by windy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that is not a sign. you just think it is because you like her so much. try not to read too much into her body language unless its extremely obvious. if shes throwing signals in your direction, you wont have to wonder. trust me. even shy women will get a mans attention in her own little way when she really wants to and you wont have to wonder.... you'll know.
2006-07-01 09:58:30 · answer #6 · answered by mind b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is short. I always figure, the worst that could possibly happen will be a funny story in two months, so why don't you quit worrying about it, and just go talk to her? Do it!
2006-07-01 09:58:50 · answer #7 · answered by Mingus57 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Borrow something from her in class, and see how she interacts with you. If she is overly friendly then find something to talk to her about, if the conversation goes well, ask her if she would like to get some coffee with you, then ask her about her self.
2006-07-01 10:20:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the funniest question I've ever read. If her feet are pointing at you ... Does she look at you? Smile or speak to you? Say hi to her, tell her you need to borrow notes, tell her she looks nice, anything just quit staring at her feet. ;-)
2006-07-01 10:02:08 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol pointer her feet at u? thats attention 2 detail.. id take it as shhes into u.. especially if shes sitting in ur direction.. wish all females were like that
2006-07-01 09:57:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋