I know my fiance' is cheating online with other women .he says that they are only friends but they keep on chatting with him cause i check his email..thatnk god i know his passwprds..
2006-07-01 09:33:33 · 18 answers · asked by triciavliet818 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel that you have to do a bit of soul searching of yourself.
To me this indicates that you are not giving him all that he wants in a relationship.
A relationship is not all sex it is a combination of mind soul and body. Think what you are lacking in giving him.
How can you remotely think he is cheating on-line. Please other than cyber sex if you can show me the real thing on line then yes I would call it cheating but talking/chatting to other women especially from a distance this is not cheating.
Please be happy that he is chatting on line and not cheating in the real world.
Please check the thread of the conversations and I am sure you will find that they are perfectly innocent.
If there is a sexual connetation there then at the right time get to know what his sexual fantasies are and then maybe you can help him and yourself.
I am a woman and talk to many men online with no other thought than just chatting and whats more their wives are quite aware that they are talking to other women.
Men will always look and lust after a thought of what could have been be glad that he is normal and only using the chat. If it was a man of mine I would be very happy of what he is doing.
Come on grow up a little do u want him to live like a monk. He is well aware you have his password and this indicates he has absolutely nothing to hide.
2006-07-01 10:03:34 · answer #1 · answered by diana h 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Every human has many wild thoughts and fantasies. They may not be able to do all of them in reality. so, they find some alternative to supress their urge. Majority of people chat or cheat online to fulfill their desire to be intimate with people or share some exciting moments. if someone fulfils their needs really up to the mark, may be they dont have to do that. [ thats why some people are there, who dont cheat online ] Hope you got the hint of how to take your fiance out of it now. All the best !
2006-07-01 09:41:22 · answer #2 · answered by rahulthesweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is on-line "cheating" really cheating? That is the question you should be asking yourself. I think that if a man is on-line having cyber sex with someone, LET HIM. It's not like he is going over to this persons house and doing her. That would be another story. Until he starts taking long trips and telling you its for business purposes, I wouldn't worry about it. It's completely harmless.
2006-07-01 09:38:42 · answer #3 · answered by pinkglitter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men cheat online for the same reason they cheat in real life......
excitement. They love the "thrill of the chase". They love to see if their words can persuade a woman to care about them, or love even. Once they do that, usually they'e done with her, and move on to their next victim.
2006-07-01 09:39:06 · answer #4 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since when is chatting cheating? I don't think he should marry a person like you. Spying on your mate is a form of dishonesty which is worse than cheating.
2006-07-01 09:39:47 · answer #5 · answered by bones54 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know his password then do something about it, write one last letter to thses girls and make it good,
tell them that you are gay and married and were just playing with her emotions to see how far they will go, tell them you know you have a problem and the others have understood and you will not email them anymmore and you are sorry but it is fun. i like playing with peoples emotions.
after you write this they wont email him back, he will try but they will not talk to him and he will be confused, oh and if your man is just friends with them, then it should be no problem to sit with him while he is talking to them so you both can be her friend, if he says that is ok, then try to chat with a guy onlline and see what he does. good luck.
2006-07-01 09:43:41 · answer #6 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
basiclly he's a jackass who thinks that you dont really know whats going on...men seem to do this alot easier than women because they think that we women are dumb and cant tell left from right and they think "oh she'll never know"..i think that you should confront him and tell him that you dont think its right for him to be doing this..hunny..you dont deserve this...you can do alot better...sorry and hope everything turns out the right way...
2006-07-01 09:39:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares why? just don't marry him!!!!!!! if you know this beforehand and you marry him anyway you deserve whatever you get. come on, this guy can't even stay faithful until the wedding, this marriage is doomed and it hasn't even happened yet. don't be that kind of fool, it will make you feel so stupid later on.
2006-07-01 09:36:08 · answer #8 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know his passwords? Dont you think maybe he wants you to see all that? So as to boost his ego? He probably needs to see that he can make you jealous ...and that makes him think you really love him....come on...think about it...why would he let you have his password and then you go and see all that?????
2006-07-01 09:36:47 · answer #9 · answered by celine8388 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he thinks u will never find out!!!
do the same to him, get a ,list of male 'friends' on ur IM and see how he feels then explain to him thats how u feel, he will then understand!!
2006-07-01 09:36:51 · answer #10 · answered by Mizz P!nk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋