Family & Relationships - 30 June 2006

Due to problems between me and my current roommate, we have decided to break our current lease, which means im not going to have a place to live. My girlfriends parents (we've been together almost a year) offered me thier basement for $600/month which includes everything - food, utlities, etc. If i get a place on my own, i will be paying at least double that, which would severly hurt my pockets and giving me less than $200 a month for personal money to live on, which i would need for food, gas, etc. Does anyone have any advice about this? I know we havent been together for that long and its kinda rushing things, but then again you've gotta do what u gotta do to survive u know? Im pretty much stuck between a rock and a hard place - live on my own and be barely just getting by or move in with them. I work full time and go to school 3 nights a week so its not like im going to be there and around her 24x7...

2006-06-30 09:26:08 · 2 answers · asked by BabyBoi 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

ING TO FIND THE SAME SHE HAD WITH HER FIRST. SHE IS SHERKING OUR KIDS AND HOME AND DEVOTING ALL ENERGY ON THESE WOMEN. HER FIRST EXPERIENCE STARTED THE SAME WAY, NOW I THINK SHE'S TRYING TO FIND THAT SAME FEELING BY GIVING HERSELF TO THEIR NEEDS. DIVORCE IS AT HAND, I DON'T WANT TO, BUT SHE WILL NOTAGREE TO GET HELP.

2006-06-30 09:26:05 · 6 answers · asked by puertoricanhusker85 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What will turn your head? What will attract you? What will cause you to look?

2006-06-30 09:25:56 · 16 answers · asked by mountaingirl88 3 in Singles & Dating

NO AVATARS.... Only real pics.

2006-06-30 09:25:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We all know everyone has a heart and feelings. But men think they can just move on like you weren't ****. And at night they miss that woman.

2006-06-30 09:25:32 · 19 answers · asked by babegirll23 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well i really want to ask this girl out but here is the problem, i would ask her to dinner or something but i cant cook and there is no restraunt close. I would say to a movie or icecream but neither of us can drive alon yet and they are a few miles away. All these places are on busy roads so its not ideal to walk to them either. I want to ask her out but cant think of anything to do or how to. O when i ask her out people said give her a single flower or something well no one grows flowers in my town in the open basically in there backyards where they arent seen and there is no flowershop. I dont want to ask her to just hang out at my house cause my parents are assholes and my house smells from them smoking. We live by lake erie but the beaches are covered with dead fish and trash (not literally) and there is no sand. We don't really live in the country, but a town off the city of Erie. It is the "rich" part of the county. Can some one give me an ideas on how to ask her/what to do?

2006-06-30 09:24:26 · 3 answers · asked by helloboredom28 2 in Singles & Dating

I will be attending a baptism and the party is for 3 babies. Whats a good to present to buy each baby? Or should I get them all the same thing? And what do I get them? They are all 7 months old. Thanks ahead of time for your responses =)

2006-06-30 09:24:05 · 15 answers · asked by ~i'M BoSsy~ 1 in Friends

is anyone else ready for the weekend to be here? i am sitting at work with only an hour and a half left to go! Im sooo bored!

2006-06-30 09:23:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

fireman friend wants me to tell him a new postion for us to try and I have no ideas.

2006-06-30 09:22:55 · 5 answers · asked by red_hot_smiles 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-30 09:22:30 · 8 answers · asked by Baby 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-30 09:22:19 · 6 answers · asked by คzzam 5 in Singles & Dating

Hey guys, i have a man in my life and he has brought up baby a few even after we had unprotected sex, he brought it up, he lewered me into having sex with no condoms, and i've never felt like this about anybody, and usually he withdraws, last time he didn't withdraw and he didn't rush and take it out, he didn't even attempt to. then he told me not to let him do that again, but to me its a puzzle that i have to solve, becuase i go back in the past and he mentioned about a baby a few times, but now he says he doesn't want me to committ to him that much, i swear i would kill this dude but he could be the father of this possible baby help please?

2006-06-30 09:20:31 · 16 answers · asked by jennifer w 1 in Singles & Dating

I hate when I see people all alone. It makes me sad for them.

2006-06-30 09:19:19 · 10 answers · asked by holyterrar85 4 in Singles & Dating

I know a guy how likes me but we are 19 or 20 years apart. What should I do???? Best Answer gets 10 points

2006-06-30 09:18:24 · 14 answers · asked by Emily R 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have physical custody of my two daughters. My ex gets them every other weekend. It is his weekend and he told me last night that he isn't going to bring them back until he d*** well feels like it. We have been divorced for 3 years and the whole time he has made threats and he constantly harasses me - calling me names and yelling at me - you name it.
Anyway - he refuses to talk to me about his visitation and will not agree to bringing them back until he feels like it. I
I called my attorney and the local sheriffs office and they told me there is nothing that they can do... that I would have to take him back to court.
And that if I refuse him his visition and we go to court that it will make me look bad.....
So what the h***????? He can just kidnap my kids and not bring them back and there is nothing I can do???
So do I let him take them and take it as an empty threat????
Or do I keep them from him until he can fix his behavior and let him take me back to court?????????

2006-06-30 09:17:59 · 16 answers · asked by jewels 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if a girl is depressed alot and she cant control her feelings for you what do u do?

do u guys like makeing the first move or do u wont us to?

2006-06-30 09:17:34 · 9 answers · asked by nobody 1 in Singles & Dating

I haven't been to or had a slumber party in years...I need some good ideas of what to plan so my daughter's party turns out cool.

2006-06-30 09:16:55 · 40 answers · asked by CURIOUS 1 in Family

Does size really matter? I am not quite average-little smaller--should I give up dating? Seriously-does size really matter? Please be honest-I need honesty--thank you

2006-06-30 09:15:10 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it appropriate to wear thong sandals on the first day? It is a casual thing, casual dinner, concert out in the park and walk after?

Any advise? I don't want to seem like I am dressing down but they are fashionable and comfortable and look good with the outfit!

2006-06-30 09:15:03 · 7 answers · asked by justinhanks2000 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-30 09:14:49 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-06-30 09:14:04 · 3 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-30 09:12:12 · 24 answers · asked by lil miss lonely 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm home for the summer, if I didn't have to, I wouldn't be here because we just don't get along. And, I know it's my fault for not changing the way she wants and being stressed. She bites,hits,scratches,kicks,etc. when she gets mad.She screams at me and I try to stop her by grabbing her arms, but I lose my temper and start yelling too. I didn't use to "fight" back in the past, but recent years, I don't know what's wrong with me. Just now, it happened again. I think I bruised her leg while trying to protect myself from her kicks(she was on the sofa, i was on the floor). She said i did that with my knees. I didn't mean to though. It only gets worse when I try to stop her, so I know I shouldn't, at least not physically. And I hate that I don't have more control. Any suggestions on how I can curb my reaction so that I can just let it blow over? It's not an everyday thing that she gets angry with me. But, I don't want to hurt her, even if it is unintentional.

2006-06-30 09:11:40 · 8 answers · asked by wrldcup 1 in Family

2006-06-30 09:11:31 · 6 answers · asked by I~LOVE~TY!!:) 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-30 09:11:29 · 14 answers · asked by Funny Lady 3 in Friends

Yes I know I shouldn't have done it in the first place... But we/I did. And now its not really working out! Don't want any hurt feelings but want out.

2006-06-30 09:10:55 · 17 answers · asked by Papa 2 in Singles & Dating

or feared you might? I think guys can be completely clueless about this.

2006-06-30 09:10:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Through my life I have seen people who just stroll through life without really trying and things just fall in their lap, why?

2006-06-30 09:10:26 · 15 answers · asked by leepato1970 3 in Friends

2006-06-30 09:09:51 · 15 answers · asked by lostboi3008 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm only 16 and i've been dateing my boyfriend for a year. both my parents left me (mom and dad) so i now live with my grandma. But my grandma verbally abuses me and i go to bed crying everynight. My dad still has custody of me so its really up to him if i can move out or not.... but he hates my boyfriend. my boyfriend is the only one that is making my life seem worth something....but my grandma and dad cant see that. im not aloud to see my boyfriend, or if i do its for 30 mins. and under adult supervision. im sick of it! i want to live with my boyfriend...his parents treat me like a daughter, and try to help but they cant do much(im not aloud to talk to them either!)please help me...i feel that i lost everything, all i want is to be happy and live with my boyfriend...but how?

2006-06-30 09:09:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends