Hey guys, i have a man in my life and he has brought up baby a few even after we had unprotected sex, he brought it up, he lewered me into having sex with no condoms, and i've never felt like this about anybody, and usually he withdraws, last time he didn't withdraw and he didn't rush and take it out, he didn't even attempt to. then he told me not to let him do that again, but to me its a puzzle that i have to solve, becuase i go back in the past and he mentioned about a baby a few times, but now he says he doesn't want me to committ to him that much, i swear i would kill this dude but he could be the father of this possible baby help please?
2006-06-30 09:20:31 · 16 answers · asked by jennifer w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's acting very suspicious. i would say that he wants a baby. but who cares what he wants, it matters what you want. are you ready to have a baby? if not, why are you not using a condom? i would just straight out ask him what his deal is, is he wanting a baby or not. and then the two of you can decide based off of what he says. if he says that he doesn't want a baby but then keeps acting like he does, just ignore it and treat it like he doesn't want one.
2006-06-30 09:26:46 · answer #1 · answered by laurie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you having fun yet? What's up with the "withdrawal" method of birth control? He "lewered" you into having sex with no condoms? What, you don't have no mind of your own. You are on the fast track to no where. Obviously you love drama and have no plans for the future. "what ever s h it happen is fine" is your motto.
2006-06-30 16:27:53 · answer #2 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't mention if you were just a little bit pregnant or not? If you are, then you should get a commitment from him to accept his paternity and help in raising his child. If not, then insist upon his using condoms and get yourself on birth control before you let him into your pants again. Tell him no ring, no ding a ling.
2006-06-30 16:27:26 · answer #3 · answered by rb_cubed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did do it on purpose! men are crazy. They have to be forced to be fathers. It sounds like this dude wants a baby but he would rather it be someone elses fault in case it's too hard and he feels like bailing! Get out while you can don't have a baby with someone who cannot(will not help) it's too hard!
2006-06-30 16:25:38 · answer #4 · answered by CURIOUS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to play alot of mind games it appears. don't you feel the same? what do you mean may be or is he? or are you unsure about the baby? if hes a man he will live up to his unprotected game. if not? take and get the DNA and make him pay his part. after all you will be raising the child the next 18years. thanks Kat
2006-06-30 16:27:37 · answer #5 · answered by shiznick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's true that every baby needs a father, but the biological father isn't always the best one...
2006-06-30 16:23:48 · answer #6 · answered by littlehincks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you should have discussed these important facts BEFORE having sex. And you should never have unprotected sex...preganancy is the least of your worries.
2006-06-30 16:24:02 · answer #7 · answered by Gina A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
didn't your momma teach you anything? always wear a condom!! if your really worried about it, take a home test and pray it comes up negative, then slap the $hit out of him. be safe, not sorry.
2006-06-30 16:25:31 · answer #8 · answered by amanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys who want kids should talk to you about having them BEFORE having sex.
If he forces his way on you for sex then he doesn't value your sense of Trust or your sense of People. I would shoot him myself for you.
2006-06-30 16:23:29 · answer #9 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears that your man is not one to act responsibly, so you better get rid of him, especially if you don't plan to marry him. If you don't intend to have children, then you shouldn't be engaged in sexual activity.
2006-06-30 16:26:33 · answer #10 · answered by mrearly2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋