I know a guy how likes me but we are 19 or 20 years apart. What should I do???? Best Answer gets 10 points
2006-06-30 09:18:24 · 14 answers · asked by Emily R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The age difference will be a challenge in the relationship. Don't kid yourself. But all relationships have challenges.
In a case like this, I think it's important to see how good the friendship portion of the relationship is. If that part works and you want to try out the romantic part, go for it.
The bottom line is that if you are happy together, it will probably work.
2006-06-30 09:30:49 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends how old YOU are, if your 13-17 and hes 33-37, than he is just using you, using his experience in women and all the pretty words that make a girl melt. Then he will just sleep with you and leave you like all the other guys. Not to mention its illegal
If however you are 25-35, and you've had experience yourself and your interested in something stable, mature and somewhat challenging (say good bye to clubbing and Six Flags) then go for it.
If your between 18-24: its iffy, most women don't like younger guys, but that old is, well, boring, at first it won't be, he'll go out to anywhere you like, then after sleeping with you, you've drained the poor or rich dirty old man!
2006-06-30 16:29:01 · answer #2 · answered by T-girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It greatly depends on how you you and he are. It makes a huge difference if you're a minor, in which case the man is a predator and should be avoided, if not reported. Other than that, what you should do depends very much on what you really want, and what, if any, price you would likely pay (in terms of your health, happiness, family relationships, etc.) for getting what you want. Once you've honestly examined all the pros and cons you (and perhaps your friends or family) can think of, weigh them out. Then, listen to your heart and intuition as well as your logical mind, and you'll know what to do. good luck.
2006-06-30 16:24:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age doesn't matter but the maturity level does. I don't know whose older but besides sex n hanging out when it comes to real life situation like bills, wirking, and kids n stuff r u 2 in agreement with ur goals in life. Just make sure before u get to close u c how much u really have n common, and if u have a lot in common and agree then go for it n enjoy.
Be safe n God bless!!
2006-06-30 16:27:30 · answer #4 · answered by leenabootie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god!!!! who's older than who with 19 or 20 years???? i hope i understood your question right, because it's crazy what you're saying....
19 or 20 years means that the older one of you is like a parent to the other
2006-06-30 16:23:28 · answer #5 · answered by sun_shine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him then i dont see why it matters if he is 20 years apart just as ong as u guys love each other.
2006-06-30 16:21:52 · answer #6 · answered by Lauren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well now, how old are you. that certainly would be something we would have to know to give an intelligent answer. If you are 12 and he is 31, no, if you are 30 and he is 49, Go for it.
2006-06-30 16:24:48 · answer #7 · answered by loufedalis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just rember if you are under 17 or he is some one can go to prison regardless of you both say your parents can put you or your partner away but if you both love eachother then talk with your family first and fight for it try not to get intament.
2006-06-30 16:26:54 · answer #8 · answered by shayshay2gavyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as both of you are of legal age, there shouldn't be a problem with it.
2006-06-30 16:29:27 · answer #9 · answered by carmelbrown2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heyy if u guys love each other i dont see anythin wrong wit it
age doesnt matter if u are rele in love with them
2006-06-30 16:22:59 · answer #10 · answered by x0xiluvu69x0x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋