Yes I know I shouldn't have done it in the first place... But we/I did. And now its not really working out! Don't want any hurt feelings but want out.
2006-06-30 09:10:55 · 17 answers · asked by Papa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's hard, especially if you're both gonna be working there afterwards. A lot depends on what kind of relationship you had, but do it on, for example, a Friday, so she has the weekend to think about it before coming back to work Monday (assuming you work M-F... whatever works depending on your weekly schedule). That way, maybe you can minimize the fallout at work. Also, you don't say why you want out, but if youre leaving for someone else, make sure it's someone outside her work social circle. Don't let people at work know that you immediately found someone else, because that will only make it worse.
2006-06-30 09:17:05 · answer #1 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the most extreme way is to quite the job and relocate.
Barring that, try to communicate openly, honestly...and firmly. No guarantee that will work as it will undoubtedly be akward in the office. Perhaps look for opportunity to transfer into a work situation with the same employer where normal contact in the work venue is very, very limited or occasional.
Hope it works out for you.
2006-06-30 16:12:52 · answer #2 · answered by Timothy W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same way you would break up with anyone else. as respectfully and painlessly as possible but feelings are going to be hurt there is no way around that. be prepared for the fall out and the discomfort at work it will be there for a while.
2006-06-30 16:14:26 · answer #3 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Automatic weapons. The only way to deal with co-workers.
2006-06-30 16:12:23 · answer #4 · answered by billy g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully this person is a reasonable adult and knew the risks for uncomfortability going in...all I can say is be straight-forward and honest and have a rational discussion.
2006-06-30 16:13:04 · answer #5 · answered by Gina A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your manager if you can work in the food prep instead of as the cashier.
2006-06-30 16:14:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must wait to get ascended to another area of the company or quit the job
2006-06-30 16:12:05 · answer #7 · answered by reii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there - done that - good luck with this one! If you both want out it'll be smooth - if he/she is attached; itll be bad ! my suggestion is to find anouther job!
2006-06-30 16:13:52 · answer #8 · answered by brandi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her fired! (Just kidding, please don't do that). Tell her exactly how you feel. She may be hurt and mad at first but if she is sensible enough she will move on.
2006-06-30 16:13:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that u need some space and it's probably not gonna work out, but thanks for the experience, ur a really cool chick.
2006-06-30 16:13:30 · answer #10 · answered by Jen S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋