I'm only 16 and i've been dateing my boyfriend for a year. both my parents left me (mom and dad) so i now live with my grandma. But my grandma verbally abuses me and i go to bed crying everynight. My dad still has custody of me so its really up to him if i can move out or not.... but he hates my boyfriend. my boyfriend is the only one that is making my life seem worth something....but my grandma and dad cant see that. im not aloud to see my boyfriend, or if i do its for 30 mins. and under adult supervision. im sick of it! i want to live with my boyfriend...his parents treat me like a daughter, and try to help but they cant do much(im not aloud to talk to them either!)please help me...i feel that i lost everything, all i want is to be happy and live with my boyfriend...but how?
2006-06-30 09:09:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if you are 16 you can take it to court and either move for termination of parental rights or you can do something easier and just file with the courts for emancipation. or you could just disobey and move in with him anyhow if his parents will let you. how old is he by the way. actually here is my husbands email address just email him before 5pm and he can respond before then. he is a paralegal with family court just tell him lisa sent you to ask him that question. nblutreich@jmdlaw.com or call 1-800-247-9870 and ask for nathan and tell him lisa sent you
2006-06-30 09:16:23 · answer #1 · answered by the_doggs_girl_1406 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your life and emotions will change dramatically in the years to come. Living with your boyfriend and his family at 16 years old is a real gamble, and you're setting yourself up for heartache later. It may suck, but listen to your dad and grandma. be strong against your grandmas words and work on making yourself into an independent person by learning all you can about what it takes to live on your own and to support yourself. The when you're 18 you can be outta there. Take what you can get with your bf, and if they see you followign their rules, they will loosen them over time.
Good luck, and I'm sorry for your struggle.
2006-06-30 16:18:05 · answer #2 · answered by kbis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT TIL YOU ARE EIGHTEEN UNLESS YOUR BOYFRIENDS PARENTS ARE WILLING TO GO TO COURT AND FIGHT FOR CUSTODY OF YOU
2006-06-30 16:15:40 · answer #3 · answered by JULIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋