I'm engaged to be married in about 1 year. My fiance has settled on having 4 bridesmaids. Originally, she had asked several of her friends and a relative, but initially one friend declined. Later on, she asked my sister, who has already accepted. Well, in the last week, she told me that her friend who originally declined now may be available. So, she told me that she would probably want to remove my sister from the wedding party. I told her I didn't like the sound of that. But, then she told me that we could just have her sing a solo instead. Maybe, she insisted, my sister would consider this a more important role in the wedding? I still wasn't very cool with the idea, but I decided to let it drop for the time being. However, the more I think about it, the more I think it just seems a bit tacky. I'm afraid it will hurt my sisters feelings, and won't endear my fiance to the family either. Am I making too big of a deal over nothing?
2006-06-23
16:37:42
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George C
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