it is so difficult.
2006-06-23 16:30:39 · 35 answers · asked by WWW 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nothing, fall out of love now. You will ruin his life, his wife's life, the life of his children, are you that kind of woman. A homewrecker.
It's not dificult at all, to make the right decision, you know the right thing to do, or you wouldn't be asking us.
Get as far away from him as you can, and find some good solid single man.
2006-06-23 16:36:44 · answer #1 · answered by johnb693 7 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Well don't cheat! If the man is married then forget it. He's already taken. Stay with your boyfriend or find someone else (that isn't married) don't cheat, because you would be breaking up the family and the children would hate you. So make the right choice and leave the married man.
2006-06-23 16:32:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the married man go. Chances are he is just using you. He makes you believe that he wants to be with you but he isn't and those are the facts. Don't be the reason. If he wants to leave his wife, let him. But don't break up the childrens home. Let the married man go. If he feels he has to be with you, he will take the appropriate action and then you can decide at that time if you really want to be in a relationship with him or someone else
2006-06-23 16:33:56 · answer #3 · answered by Angels girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you fell in love with someone else your boyfriend really isn't your boyfriend anymore, he is just some guy you are leading on. As for the married guy leave hom alone at least until he is unmarried because in the end you are going to lose out having an affair. Maybe you should try playing the field instead of staying in relationships.
2006-06-23 16:39:00 · answer #4 · answered by bcarefulwatchaask4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
falling = good chance of pain, hurt to self and others
you are NOT in love, you are in lust...or caught up in the whole intriguing,mysterious, thing of it all---hey --look at what you wrote:
married (means he is committed in a sacred covenant to someone else) children (means he is a father and has responsibility to them and to example to them what a father should be as well as a faithful husband.
Break off your relationship with this married man. It is wrong. Plain and simple. Tell a trusted friend and get advice and accountability. Be honest with your boyfriend. Waiting will bring MORE hurt, pain to him---to YOU! Do the right thing. Be brave. Save yourself and others (innocent children) of hurt, pain, confustion and possibly a life changed for the worst.
2006-06-23 16:38:11 · answer #5 · answered by answerb4midnight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not difficult, it's easy. The married man is off limits to you. If you don't like your boyfriend anymore go find another single man.
2006-06-23 16:34:15 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all married men are off limits no matter how much he tells you that he doesn't love the wife anymore - and as for you having a bf - where is your dedication - you nor the married man would stay loyal to one another
2006-06-23 16:33:31 · answer #7 · answered by MS L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing you can do but to make two decisions. first continue with what you feel, and let your emotions guide you. but you have to remember that this man is married which means that he will not be totally committed to you and that you have to share him with his wife and children. second, move on, accept the fact that you fall in love with him and let it be like that. focus more on your boyfriend, and you'll see, real love will win through, it takes time and you will forget the married man.
2006-06-23 16:38:50 · answer #8 · answered by patric 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fall OUT of love with the married man. You are helping to destroy someone else's marriage. Can you live with yourself after doing that? I don't think so. Plus, I doubt he is going to leave his wife and kids for you. He just wants an affair, that's it. End it, before your heart gets broken.
2006-06-23 19:22:25 · answer #9 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you go and see those kids and imagine in your head that you're taking a big knife and cutting them to pieces slooowly (like our judicial system works). That will give you an idea of the pain you're about to inflict because of your stupid hormones.
Oh, and go tell your boyfriend to find another girl because you're a S L U T and he deserves better.
Love is when you care about that person. Hurting that person's family and kids is NOT love. It's infatuation.
2006-06-23 16:35:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋