Family & Relationships - 19 June 2006

ok so all my friends tell me to all the time but its hard because he is so sweet but he isnt the best boyfriend. we never really see each other and rarely talk on the phone and i dont even feel like i have a boyfriend because we NEVER talk or see each other anymore. when we first started hanging out he called me a lot and we hung out but now he never calls and i dont want to call him and be like the "clingy girlfriend" i just want to hang out with him at leat once every week i dont see the crime in that but he always says he is grounded (okok so he has gotten in trouble with police but who dosnt once in their life?) but i have tried breaking up with him twice but it never works for some wierd reason......... and if i do break up with him i still want to be friends because we have been friends for a long time

2006-06-19 10:28:59 · 15 answers · asked by kiss the cook 4 in Singles & Dating

I dated my husbands best friend before I met him, and well we are all still really good friends. But I just resentally found out that he had been telling our group that I was some syco girlfriend who wouldnt stop talking about marriage, when he was the one who was doing all the talking. now I havent said anything, but I dont know if i should, should I risk a good friendship just to prove I am in the right? what should I do?

2006-06-19 10:27:11 · 10 answers · asked by JOJO 2 in Singles & Dating

Went on a really good date Sat. and had a few drinks at a pub down the street. When we got back, we flirted, kissed that kinda stuff. Well I asked for a BJ and it was like I stuck my head in a bees nest! Do you ladies think that was unacceptable? What would have you done ladies?

2006-06-19 10:26:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

details: i went out with a guy and then broke up with him i know he still likes me he just doesn't know i like him. every time any girl talks to him i get really jealous. and i want him back so bad

is this love?
should i trust my instinct that i think it is love

i actually feel like i want to be with him forever.

please help me

2006-06-19 10:26:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-19 10:26:05 · 2 answers · asked by spoiltrini 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I never had a gf. It's not our custom to have bf's and gf's. My parents
introduced me to several girls. We talked and I chose 4 of them as my wives(upto now)--certainly with their consent. But now I am attracted
to another girl. I saw her from my window. She is unmarried and beautiful. But it is illegal to marry more than 4. So, I want to divorce my eldest wife(she is 32). But I am not sure if I send proposals to the girl's parent they will accept or not. May be they chose already some guy for her. Please help with advise.

2006-06-19 10:25:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-19 10:25:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My ex-common-law husband left around christmas, telling me that there were many reasons and that we could still be friends. I loved this man with all my heart, I trusted him even though I have been hurt before, I believed in him and now he tells me that he had been thinking about it for 9 months. I guess I just dont understand. I feel like its my fault and that if I just change this or that, then it will be all better, but since he left he has started drinking and doing drugs and generally messing up his life. I dont want to be in love with this man anymore, yet I cant seem to snap out of it. Please help, I dont want this to be the example my kids follow.

2006-06-19 10:25:36 · 14 answers · asked by c_d_carrier 2 in Marriage & Divorce

They are from different countries and speak very little of each other's language. But they have been together for more than 6 months.

2006-06-19 10:24:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok there is this girl that lives in Texas and i just moved to louisiana i asked her to hive me a chance and she said she all ready did and it was for like 1 day. I realt like this girl but now it is a long distance relatoinship how do i get her to like me

2006-06-19 10:22:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

About 2 years ago, I aquired what I refer to as "real" friends. The 2 friends I had now were pretty much the only people that I was around that didnt kick the crap out of me all the time, steal my money, or talk smack about me. They even offered to pay me for gas most of the time. Anyways that isnt really the question I had. I'm starting to realize that friendship may be more than a burnen that it is worth, we are starting to argue all the time (usually over something stupid) and see each other less and less, maybe caring is really a weakness. I'm a bit sick of having friends, at least thats the way I feel now, it sounds odd but I'm starting to miss the days when I was ignored by everyone, and just stayed in my room forever.

I've been reading a book I was reffered to off this site, called solitute:return to the inner self. Its a rather intresting book, stating therioes about why humans are such soloicatial beings. Was friendship just a old way of staying alive (to keep from being...

2006-06-19 10:22:20 · 4 answers · asked by D 4 in Friends

I would like to talk to a mature lady if thats possable ?

2006-06-19 10:21:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

she's turning 13 and she's fun and very talkative. HELP!

2006-06-19 10:21:19 · 2 answers · asked by Rimi 6 in Friends

Where can you get a free download of the video hook a sista up

2006-06-19 10:20:53 · 12 answers · asked by janetjj 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay so i really like this guy he's 19, nice, i like him and he likes me. We've just been flirty and friendly with each other nothing drastic yet, but when the time comes for him to make a move on me(cuz he will) what should i do? Im not interested in him to be my bf because its summer and i dont like having relationships in the summer, but i want to "hookup" with him really bad. The problem is that he has a kid, and his baby's mother lives with him and his family but they are not together, they just live together cuz they have a kid, he doesnt love her. Should i lay off cuz he has a kid and lives with the mom? Or is it ok to go for it because he doesnt like her and its not like i want him to be my bf anyway. And he hooks with alot of other girls in the area, its obvious he doesnt really love her but sometimes he even calls her his "wife". Plz help cuz i really like him!!

2006-06-19 10:20:52 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom is driving me nuts. First she wants me to move out, then she gets mad at me because I did. Now, she wants me to just drop all of my 4th of July plans because she and my grandmother are driving up to NC to see my grandfather and she wants me to go instead of taking my car to the beach. My grandfather is sick so I'm not complaining about going to see him, it's the way my mom is handling it. She's demanding that I drive to NC. Then she said, " You may not live under my roof, but you still have to abide by my rules." I'm pretty sure it doesn't work that way. I'm flying out of Pensacola for a trip to Europe that same week!!!! I have to get down there and she wants to leave for NC on the day before the 4th. She won't even listen to me. Someone give me some advice on how to handle this before I blow a fuse. I am losing my temper and fast!!!!!!

2006-06-19 10:18:31 · 7 answers · asked by BamaBelle 2 in Friends

Yahoo? or any other web sites?
Something not so complicated that you have to register and pay, and download their software.
Thank you in advance.

2006-06-19 10:18:14 · 4 answers · asked by creskin 4 in Singles & Dating

How old should my child be before she goes to stay the night at her dad's house without me? She's just a baby now, and she isn't used to being with him for more than a few hours a week.

2006-06-19 10:17:13 · 35 answers · asked by mollidoodles 1 in Family

I dont want to be mean, I pray about it all the time, the strenght to be nice, but what if they are just unlikable. I dont know what to do. I love my husband and dont want to disrespect him. Does anyone else feel the same? Am I evil for wishing they didnt exist?

2006-06-19 10:17:12 · 18 answers · asked by cutiepie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you think is more likely the case... (1) Many people take pride in deliberately misspelling words OR (2) too many people can't actually spell but don't care that they don't OR (3) many people can't use Yahoo's spell-check facility ? (BTW, 'facility' = 'facil' which means 'easy to use !)

2006-06-19 10:16:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

well are you?
how come u cant jus settle down wit one person and love them instead of jumpin from pu**y to pu**y

2006-06-19 10:15:54 · 33 answers · asked by itsjustme5324 1 in Singles & Dating

i think they are after me

2006-06-19 10:15:40 · 23 answers · asked by wooj.wooj 1 in Friends

would it be really evil if i told my cousin if she didint lose weight she cant be a bridesmaid??? i have picked out dresses....and i want them all to wear the same style but that style doesnt come in her size....i dont know wat to do....i dont wanna sound like a b*t*h but how can i tell her????

2006-06-19 10:15:33 · 34 answers · asked by muwah22 2 in Weddings

I want lots of sex, at least every other day...every day is better any less than that and I'm a grouch! is there something wrong with me? I'm married and have been for almost 6 years... I'm 23 . my husband use to enjoy it as much as me but it seems he is slacking a little...he'd rather do it 1-2 times a week !! I can't wait that long!!!! what should I do?

2006-06-19 10:15:21 · 27 answers · asked by JeNe 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I know its easy to say..."whenever the time is right, but I am looking for some sort of a window...II know everyone is different too..

2006-06-19 10:15:02 · 5 answers · asked by weirdguy24 1 in Singles & Dating

LETS THROW A PARTY!!!!!!

2006-06-19 10:14:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please tell me

2006-06-19 10:14:55 · 3 answers · asked by DJ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-19 10:14:10 · 2 answers · asked by cavondra t 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-19 10:13:40 · 23 answers · asked by HeartsBreaker 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok me and my best friend (who is a girl and i'm a girl too) we made out, once, but we were both half asleep and i weas still drunk, now she's all freaked out by this, and tells me to stay away from her... what can i do? it wasnt my fault.. And she's the one that made a move on me..

2006-06-19 10:13:16 · 8 answers · asked by just_me 1 in Friends