Went on a really good date Sat. and had a few drinks at a pub down the street. When we got back, we flirted, kissed that kinda stuff. Well I asked for a BJ and it was like I stuck my head in a bees nest! Do you ladies think that was unacceptable? What would have you done ladies?
2006-06-19 10:26:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u shouldn't ask for it. if she wants to do it, she will but u never ask!
2006-06-19 10:29:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't like it when the guy just flat out says "can I have a BJ"
It's something that I do for the guy when I want to show him how much I want to make him happy !
Not just hey give me a BJ .. because we started kissing. Maybe next time you want a BJ so bad ... go down on her first and ask if she likes returning the favor ... if she still says no then that's her choice - deal with it or find a new sex partner !
2006-06-19 10:33:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's probably a bad move to ask for a BJ. Unless you guys were starting to dig each other by the end of the night. But make sure you are prepared to reciprocate. I know I would. I'd probably instigate it all w/o asking.
2006-06-20 08:47:25 · answer #3 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT ask her for a BJ on the FIRST date! (no matter if the date went great).
now, if you have been together for a year like me and my bf, then you could ask :)
2006-06-19 10:33:53 · answer #4 · answered by ksnewber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have never went on a date with you again. I would have felt like you saw me as a prostitute. I dont think a man should ever ASK for it. If the women wants to do it she will do it.
2006-06-19 10:31:17 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have not ask that question you should have waited it wrong when a man take a lady out and she take a drink and the man try to take advance on her.
2006-06-19 10:32:20 · answer #6 · answered by Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although I'm all for communication between partners and people asking for what they want in bed I think this was a little to soon. If she offered, great. I hope she forgives u
2006-06-19 10:30:22 · answer #7 · answered by SunnySmile83 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here goes: I LOVE TO SUCK A JUICY C0CK! however, I DO NOT like it when a guy asks for it. if u turn me on enough i'll grab ur sh!t myself and go down on u. catch me in a good mood tho and if u ask me i'll do it..
i guess it just depends. i figure some girls wouldn't mind - i do (most times).
instead of asking why don't you try grabing her hand as u 2 are making out and them slowly moving towards ur c0ck. she'll get the hint and hopefully within seconds she'll start sucking u off. :D
2006-06-19 10:31:04 · answer #8 · answered by dvlndskyz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that's wrong, of course. but thats ok, this guy i have been with is the same way you are. maybe not on the first date or time spent toghether, but he is sick w da bj crap all da time too.
2006-06-19 10:29:39 · answer #9 · answered by kkaze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that is a big No nO!! You never ask for it thats a big turn off. If she wants to do it she will do it when she is ready.
2006-06-19 10:35:53 · answer #10 · answered by ShYGiRl*87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the girl.. but you should never ask.
2006-06-19 10:32:13 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋